It's hard not to feel that way. It's also not good, but you can't help how you feel. Not to get off topic, but I have a meeting to go to tomorrow where I have to interact with 20 people. I feel like I'm climbing the walls.
Yeah! I feel bitter. I see guys with girlfriends and i think ''Why him, and not me?'' I feel like a freak, and the older i become the less confidence i have in myself.
Thats EXACTLY how i feel. I can't stand it. I worked at a till (in the middle of a town) and all day long i'd see couples, and think that bloody sucks, whats so special about those guys!?
I think a lot of guys on here who are still virgins should go to a brothel. Guys if it's such a big deal to you being a virgin just go and have sex with some prostitutes. You will be awful at first but who cares you need some practice and I think it will make you feel a whole lot better to just get it out of your system and feel that you are on the same level as everyone else. I did it and that's how I got over my feelings of inferiority for never having had a girlfriend.
Joined: Jul 23, 2006 Posts: 387 Location: -Gulf of Mexico-
Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 3:47 am Post subject: standards
Wow shield thats .........a diffrent advise from wht most of us were probaly expecting but at least you offered a solution instead of the same old same old.
I want to believe that what shield was realy try to say is for all of us to write down our standards and look at them closely objectively. See if the standers we have for relationships are updated i guess. Maby we could even post them as a blog so others can help us test them for realist ness.
WHy do we never see girls making these kind of posts?
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Joined: Aug 17, 2007 Posts: 1301 Location: Wales, UK
Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 6:23 pm Post subject:
shield wrote:
I think a lot of guys on here who are still virgins should go to a brothel. Guys if it's such a big deal to you being a virgin just go and have sex with some prostitutes. You will be awful at first but who cares you need some practice and I think it will make you feel a whole lot better to just get it out of your system and feel that you are on the same level as everyone else. I did it and that's how I got over my feelings of inferiority for never having had a girlfriend.
I don't like the idea, it just shouts desperation to me, and just the thought that the prostitute has been with hundreds even thousands of other guys.
Joined: May 29, 2008 Posts: 85 Location: Illinois, USA
Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 7:12 pm Post subject:
shield wrote:
I think a lot of guys on here who are still virgins should go to a brothel. Guys if it's such a big deal to you being a virgin just go and have sex with some prostitutes. You will be awful at first but who cares you need some practice and I think it will make you feel a whole lot better to just get it out of your system and feel that you are on the same level as everyone else. I did it and that's how I got over my feelings of inferiority for never having had a girlfriend.
I don't know about anybody else, but me wanting a girlfriend has really nothing to do with sex. I just want somebody who I like and more importantly likes me. I'm sure sex would happen if I found someone, but it's really not the thing that's making me want someone. Being a virgin doesn't bother me in the least. I wanna cuddle and hold hands with a girl more than have sex with one.
Joined: May 29, 2008 Posts: 85 Location: Illinois, USA
Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 7:20 pm Post subject:
Kien wrote:
WHy do we never see girls making these kind of posts?
My thoughts exactly. It bothers me kinda when I read girls on here saying they are depressed and unhappy and they have a boyfriend. Jeez, I'm always unhappy and depressed cause I don't have a girlfriend.
All this talk of relationships versus hobbies and careers reminds me of an article I once read about a researcher who published a study claiming that great male scientists have tended to publish their best work around the same time that they get married. He theorized that the scientific work was a form of sexual display (and apparently a surprisingly effective one).
Ever since then I've have this caricature in my mind of the sexually frustrated male channeling his sexual energy into ridiculous alternative obsessions, like "Look! Look at me! I just built a 1/4th scale model of the Eiffel tower by welding 8 million pennies together! I just set a Guinness world record by yodeling while balancing upside-down on my fingertips for seven straight days! I just wrote an 800-page postmodern novel from the perspective of a pigeon stuck in the wheel-well of an Antonov AN-225 on a flight from Novgorod to Vladivostok! Now won't someone PLEASE HAVE SEX WITH ME ALREADY!!!!"
*Sigh* ... I see a little of myself in that caricature, and I wonder if all my high-falutin' intellectual ambitions are just a pathetic substitute for sex.
lol @ ^
girls who i like and talk to me give me happy high, imagine a relationship, btw girls are everything. their like alpha and omega.
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