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RedRibbons
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 8:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

:p well let us know how it turns out!

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asubscriber99
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 8:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

it's a stripper dude?!!!!!

what the heck...

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ripewithdecay
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 9:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Actually stripper's are kinda corny I always thought.
Some guys can't get enough of it but I can just see how hard they try to look sexy and it's all so fake and for what...?
You know they hate their job. You know you're just going to get 'teased' and then she's gonna turn around and rub all over another paying customer.
Eck, just stupid imo.

I'd rather a chick I already knew do it Razz

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 9:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It aint the fact she's a stripper that bothers me, if it was just me and her I don't think I;d have too much of a problem. If I went to a lapdance club with my 'mates' I don't think I'd have a problem either. Its the fact that everyone would be watching me for my reactions, I wouldn;t know what to do. It'd be like being on stage. I hate being the centre of attention, as I'm sure most of the people on this forum do. It makes me really anxious, which is why I posted.

Anyway, I think I may have sorted it with my sister. She wasn't too happy because it cost her money to cancel, even though I did tell her a few weeks back not to let her mate get me one. Turns out she was in on it the whole time. I basically said the only reason she was pushing for me to have one was for her and everyone else's entertainment, as she already knew it would embarass me. She said she's cancelled it... but I don;t 100% believe her Rolling Eyes

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 9:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hope one doesn't actually turn up on the day Razz God id be so embarressed if someone I knew booked one for me, let us know how it goes on the day ;P

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 11:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

GKJB wrote:
It aint the fact she's a stripper that bothers me, if it was just me and her I don't think I;d have too much of a problem. If I went to a lapdance club with my 'mates' I don't think I'd have a problem either. Its the fact that everyone would be watching me for my reactions, I wouldn;t know what to do. It'd be like being on stage. I hate being the centre of attention, as I'm sure most of the people on this forum do. It makes me really anxious, which is why I posted.

Anyway, I think I may have sorted it with my sister. She wasn't too happy because it cost her money to cancel, even though I did tell her a few weeks back not to let her mate get me one. Turns out she was in on it the whole time. I basically said the only reason she was pushing for me to have one was for her and everyone else's entertainment, as she already knew it would embarass me. She said she's cancelled it... but I don;t 100% believe her Rolling Eyes


Know I know exactly what you mean. I've been in a similiar situation, although it didn't involve a stripper. Basically I was hanging out with people from work, I'm not really close to any of them but I still talk to them and occasionally we hang out outside of work.
Anyway we were watching the major league baseball playoffs last year and my favorite team was playing. Whenever my team scored I never showed any emotion. They would kind of laugh/joke about it saying "wow, they just got a 3 run homer and he just sits there. Absolutly no reaction".
It's also happens when we play beer pong. I'll make one, and other than high-fiving my teammate and maybe a fist pump, I don't show any other emotion.

But that's just how I am, I don't really "wear my emotions on my sleeve".

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 3:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you can't get out of it, bring singles and batteries. Yes, batteries. Preferably C or D size.

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