this sucks! i never had a girl in my whole life!

thugaveli · Posted: Fri Jun 17, 2005 12:35 am Post subject:

its hard to interact and communicate with people in general but making the first step into love and romance, g/f & b/f's is just a brick wall.
you dont know how to go about it so you read up on it and it all seems stupid. the best way to go about it is friendship but even that is hard for us
i find it hard to talk to girls because i feel ashamed about my personality cos i dont even have 1! or do i?
i see myself as a boring depressing male living to die

i dont know relationships seem a wierd thing to me with having SP looking back at my previous relationship it was pretty much 1 way as i kinda held my partner down not being able to go out with her and her mates, not being able to go into town on the bus, not meeting her family i found it all intimidating and felt a lot of pressure was on me, i also felt like i was selfish but i was restricted to doing certain things.
feeling secure was the best thing i experienced

now im not in a relationship its pretty depressing i feel like a loner but all the pressure has gone and i feel much better for freeing my partner so to speak! (she was chained to the toilet) lol j/k but you get me

ato · Newbie User Joined: May 29, 2005 Posts: 10

First Girlfriend at 30 y/old. we only last 3 months we broke up because I couldnt fit in her social world, I am 33 and still no GF... sad isnt it?

Hellraising · Intermediate User Joined: Apr 07, 2005 Posts: 260

I never had a guy or girl in my entire life either. I'm 17, never had a date, never had a kiss, and I've never had a real friend.

maggie · Posted: Fri Jun 17, 2005 12:08 pm Post subject:

i think there is something honourable about waiting for the right time, the right circumstance, the right girl....most women would appreciate that Smile

hermitt · Newbie User Joined: Jun 19, 2005 Posts: 27

i've never dated and i'm 22!!! i did have a chance.. but i ran..i RAN!!

xXheartlessarchangelXx · Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 3:39 am Post subject:

I really dont need partners they ditch me anyway Crying or Very sad

but at the same time i crave for attention!

lifesnotfair · Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 1:25 pm Post subject:

never had a g/f, i'm 23, all the girls that i had tried to ask out have rejected me

Rossettismuse1 · Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 7:31 pm Post subject:

I'm 31 and I've never had a girlfriend.

This of course is a very torturous existance. The one tip i would give younger men, is you have to be brave, you have to go after the girl you fancy and tell her how you feel. This is easier said than done, but unless you are good looking, they won't go for you, they will never initiate. So do something now, or you will end up alone all your life.

Believe me, I know what I'm talking about.

why_do_I_try · Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 9:31 pm Post subject:

don't worry about it, if you try not to think about it you wont feel so bad about it. many people are in the same situation and you never know one day a girl might approach you. oh and if your HH is causing problems theres something called driclor, you can buy it online just google it.

Cryptolysergick · Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2005 6:17 pm Post subject:

Never had a girl either. It seems girls want too much out of guys, I mean yea, I have a bit to offer, but they seem to want weight lifters or athletes with big cars and nice hats. Dunno maybe its just me, I stopped going for average girls, Ive even tried homeless drifter girls(not for sex, I hate sex).

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