Just like many of you, I'm really frustrated as well. I'm 18 and have never had a girlfriend. It sucks, knowing that ALL (and I mean all) of your friends have at least been on one date and all you have ever had is lonliness. When my friends asked me if I had a special someone for Valentines day they were thoroughly suprised to find out that I've never even come close to having anyone! But of course I figure if I haven't had any experience at all by this age, I should just pretty much accept the fact that loneliness and isolation are the conditions of my life, no matter how hard I work or how kind I am, I will always be alone. I think I am an involuntary celebate. It's either that or I'm ugly (which I'm not), out of shape (which I'm the far opposite of), or a big loudmouth jerk (which I would shoot myself if I were). I have plenty more to get off my chest but this will do for now .
Joined: Nov 09, 2005 Posts: 123 Location: California
Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 2:38 am Post subject:
Wow, @ all of the "I'm __ years old and have never had a ______ friend!
Well here's another. I'm 16 and have never had a boyfriend. I don't know about you guys but most of the people I know have been "dating" since 2nd grade!
I had my first when I was 9, technically I cant see it as a girlfriend but we said we were etc... you know what its like, we didnt even kiss... well if we did it would just have been her kissing my cheak Then she finished with me, I cried over that... how pathetic lmao
I would say that many people have experienced being single and not just a person with sp. I have had moderate success with dating. I would say moderate just to make it sound better to myself but it is a pain to say the least to be single. Yet knowing that there others that are experiencing this is comforting in a way. That it is more common then I think it is. If I pursue a relationship it opens me up to anixiety so I do not. So I wait until someone pursues me. Would there be any comfort in a sp dating a sp?
an quiet unconfident man is a MAJOR turnoff for women,ironicly most men find shy,quiet girls cute and sweet i know it sucks thats just the way it is
I don't think this is always true....I often find quiet guys attractive, I just don't say anything. I think that maybe they understand what I'm going through. The problem is, we're both too shy to start up a conversation!
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I don't know about you guys but most of the people I know have been "dating" since 2nd grade! 
Then she finished with me, I cried over that... how pathetic lmao
