Sexual Banter

blubs · Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 11:45 am Post subject:

Hiya

I just wanted to say, firstly that I never meant this to be a mars/venus thing. I realise that the guy shouting at me was just trying to provoke a laugh and a bit of banter...thats why I called it 'sexual banter'...not 'evil sex insults'...or something! Its because I am terified of being the center of attention, I can't cope with it and so was looking for some tips..

So also I'd like to say that after reading your comments....I feel more able to cope with it..I think I can learn to ignore them or just smile.
I'll still be really nervous if I have to walk past a group of men, and I'll still probably get so self concious that I forget how to walk and do a funny hobble past!....But at least I won't beat myself up after for not knowing what to do...so a big THANKYOU everyone! Very Happy

..who knows...maybe I'll be so not bothered I'll learn to shout back!...

..*blubs imagines scenario and tries really hard to think of a rude comeback!...

Embarassed

!!!!

..*blubs runs off and hides from Sexual Banter under a cushion!!...