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kevincadogan
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PostPosted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 11:53 pm    Post subject: i had a feelling Reply with quote

that it was all about the level of confidence a guy shows.i guess being funny and able to comunicate to another human being is good also!lol.iam still trying to figure out everything in my life. Confused

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 11, 2005 12:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

taws wrote:
because of one fact, the assholes ask them out.


Idea You hit the target, man. Idea Cool

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 11, 2005 12:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I married one of the biggest assholes and within two years I was at the Family Court getting a divorce....talk about a control freak.

After that I was careful who I went out with. I must admit I have been out with some of the nicest guys around.

I don't like arrogant, full of yourself type of guy. I like caring, compassionate guys who are willing to accept you for who you are and vice versa.

I will take a nice guy over an asshole any time now Smile

annie

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 12, 2005 12:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey, have any of u guys heard of David DeAngelo? hes sum sex guru dude that teaches tips on how 2 attact hot girls. Double Your Dating its called. and the answer 2 yor question is in there. search him on google or sumfin. girls dont like "wussys"! they like "cocky and funny" guys. thats wat he says n e way, and i totaly agree, if used is technic and they r 100% accurate! and then fuckin SP gets in the way! Evil or Very Mad

1, Kezada

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PostPosted: Thu Feb 22, 2007 2:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i don't understand it either. I prefer quiet but confident guys, defienetly not assholes.
it's like on lost, why the hell does kate like sawyer? Jack is such a nice guy. I really don't understand it Question


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 11:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

if you think that, then you are not looking for the right girls...
we are not all the same Wink


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 24, 2007 1:10 pm    Post subject: Re: why do women like assholes? Reply with quote

kevincadogan wrote:
why do girls usually choose assholes for boyfriends instead of niceguys?i have sa,and iam a nice guy.u would think thats what a girl would be looking for,someone that wouldnt treat her like crap.i dont know,i cant figure it out.


Let me ask you a question:
Why do guys like petty, high maintenance drama queens?

The most sense I've been able to make out if it is, because they're different.

Keep in mind, any gender specific trait can attract, and often exists for that purpose.

Also, some adage about love being blind springs to mind.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 25, 2007 7:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

mienaino wrote:

Why do guys like petty, high maintenance drama queens?


How did you gather this and who is that in your avatar? It looks like a final fantasy character...I <3 pixel art.

I just want a girl that isn't stuck up and doesn't like me for what I can offer, but for who I am. MOST IMPORTANTLY, when things go wrong, doesn't bail. Preferrably a low level of drama.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 25, 2007 8:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

SocialRetahd wrote:

How did you gather this and who is that in your avatar? It looks like a final fantasy character...I <3 pixel art.


That's BlackMage, from the original Final Fantasy, also from the webcomic 8-Bit Theater (see: http://www.nuklearpower.com/archive.php). If you're into pixel art and you're familiar with Final Fantasy and RPGs, you'll probably like 8BT. =)

As for guys liking drama queens, I gather as much from the opposed argument to why girls like assholes. As it is easily noticable, the guys who have most success in finding mates are assholes, but not only that, the girls who have the most success are petty, high maintenance drama queens. This, I've concluded from observation.
Also, most people don't know much about the guy or girl they're falling for until it's too late. So as a result, most girls who like assholes don't know the guy is an asshole until they're over the crystallization phase. The same applies to guys who fall for drama queens.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 11:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

kevincadogan wrote:
why do girls usually choose assholes for boyfriends instead of niceguys?i have sa,and iam a nice guy.u would think thats what a girl would be looking for,someone that wouldnt treat her like crap.i dont know,i cant figure it out.

really? I don't know of one kevin...



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