Joined: Oct 19, 2005 Posts: 70 Location: Japan (but from Egypt)
Posted: Wed Oct 19, 2005 5:00 am Post subject:
that is good idea to talk to this shy guy and make a relationship with him
I think he will understand you and you will understand him
In my opinion relation between sp person and normal person would fail in most cases because non sp sufferers wouldn't ever understand or feel with what their sp friends feel and this could arouse many troubles between them
even you and the shy guy can help each other and the shared suffering between you and him could help too much in a deep relationship between you and him which will last long if not forever
there is a well known old saying here "the love can make miracles"
anyway my advice for all sp people including me also is to try to have sp friends too bf or gf
lets get united and help each other
Jeannie21 wrote:
Thanks guys! You made me feel a bit better.
I was feeling so bad because this summer a great guy asked me out. I said maybe, but that I would like us to get to know eachother as friends first. He seemed ok with that. Everything was going well. Until in an email, I decided to tell him that I might have problems doing certain things (like being with a big group of his friends) because of my sp. He obviously couldn't accept this because he never contacted me again. I guess if he can't accept me for who I am, he isn't the guy for me.
There is one guy at school who is very shy who I really really like. He asked me out once for drinks. He was always the one who came up to me and who started the conversations. I was so nervous around him that I actually tried to avoid him at times. This year I will try to start conversations so he will know I am interested. I think that he might understand my problem because once when I told him that I wasn't comfortable going to the student lounge, he stayed with me, even though his friends were all in the lounge. I hope it is not too late to show him that I actually am interested in him.
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