Joined: Nov 05, 2004 Posts: 112 Location: New Zealand
Posted: Sat Dec 24, 2005 12:42 pm Post subject:
worrydoll wrote:
the clitoris is an amaxing piece of equipment..everyone should take the time to learn to use it
*looks around for his clitoris, oh what the ... short changed! *
Hmm not gay, dont have a problem with it - although I can see how anxiety around it would possibly be a trigger for SA or other anxiety disorders.
Obviously sexuality isn't half as clear cut as its made out to be, I liken it to a sliding scale more - some are firmly at one end, others somewhere in between. Where ever you are, its all good.
Oh and, I read that nancy friday book when i was like 10, certainly opened my eyes maybe thats why I like erotic stories more than most other forms of material, the detail and descriptions can paint a far more vivid picture than some cheesy porn flick. Not that they dont have their uses
P.S.
Merry Christmas everyone@!! its 1.50am on the 25th here - I've just got home from a concert (yes indeed!) and it was amazing.
you know...it could just be that..you havent ..mmm your sexuality just hasnt..woken up yet....i'd been having sex for ten years before i even discovered the clitoral orgasm....mmmm...being on your own...isnt the death of great orgasms...i reccomend reading erotic literature...and or writing it...plus some books that helped me get to know myself better sexually are 'my secret garden' by nancy friday and 'the mirror within' by anne dickson. orgasms are such a blessing..everyone should have them! it pays to..discover your sexuality..i dont just mean..am i gay straight bi or a-..i mean...just..get to know what you like and what works for you....hours of fun ... x
actually I can give myself an orgasm fine have been able to for quite awhile...though it isn't something i do very often. just occasionally. with what I said about being asexual...I just meant with other people, really...I'm still a virgin. people don't even usually try to do anything with me...not that i'm complaining. that's a good thing, since nobody has ever cared anything about me anyway.
Joined: Jan 27, 2006 Posts: 143 Location: Sydney, Australia
Posted: Tue Jan 31, 2006 6:59 am Post subject:
Scottish_Player wrote:
My opinion is prob clear and i dont agree with either man or woman having sex wiith the same sex, but as its been said on here before what goes on between closed doors between 2 CONCENTING adults is entirely up to them.
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What so its ok for a straight couple to pash each other in public, but wrong for gay and lesbiamn to pash publicly?
Joined: Feb 19, 2006 Posts: 3 Location: England, UK.
Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 6:04 pm Post subject:
I am definately bisexual, although sometimes I think I lean more towards being gay. I like both guys and girls, I get crushes on both guys and girls but I think if I had a choice between a guy who had a great personality and was attractive and a girl who had an equally great personality and attractivness I would probably pick the girl.
_________________ "Through the centuries, we have projected onto the wolf the qualities we most despise and fear in ourselves." ~ Barry Lopez
about a month ago i went to see brokeback mountain. then i had a prolonged panick attack (about 2 1/2 days). then i realized that I'm a lesbian. or bi....but definitely want to be with girls. then i broke up with my boyfriend.
isn't that terrible??? brokeback mountain is part of my coming out story. It isn't even that great a movie
but I really do think that this whole thing has had an impact on my sp. its like... not fitting in, not feeling my identity, and all that. I think i identify, group wise, with lesbians.
_________________ "On est sur terre, et c'est sans remède"
I really don't think being gay had any effect on the severity of my SA. That was caused by constant put downs in elementary school + anxiety runs in my family.
I haven't had a boyfriend yet or even kissed a guy. SA is terribly limiting
so for those who are homophobics or say "seeing 2 men kissing disgust me" let me tell you something dudes...
you're free to discriminate other people... but then dont upset yourself if you get discriminated.
you're free to disgust your self by other human beings.... go ahead, but then dont upset yourself if someone is disgusted by you. and not only in those things... but in everything.
or else if you hear people telling you "thank god im not quite guy like you" dont upset yourself... you have to remember there was a time when you said "thank god im not gay"
i'm GAY....and is the main reason why i dont open my self to people, i look really fake cuz i dont have the balls to just be myself.... im quite effeminated, i like girlish things, i talk in a very effeminated way, and thats why i suffer from inferiority complex sometimes when i see straight guys.
someday i'll be PROUD of who i am... and therefore my shyness will vanish when i fix this thing.
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maybe thats why I like erotic stories more than most other forms of material, the detail and descriptions can paint a far more vivid picture than some cheesy porn flick. Not that they dont have their uses 
have been able to for quite awhile...though it isn't something i do very often. just occasionally. with what I said about being asexual...I just meant with other people, really...I'm still a virgin. people don't even usually try to do anything with me...not that i'm complaining. that's a good thing, since nobody has ever cared anything about me anyway.
