what partner you prefer SA or not SA

SqueakyGibson · Newbie User Joined: Oct 16, 2006 Posts: 38

I would like a girlfriend who is very understanding and supportive of social phobia, and likes to live a fairly quiet lifestyle; but she must be able to function well enough for the both of us.

I don't think I could get on with a woman who goes to wild parties and clubs, etc. Either I'd get dragged along and hate every second of it, or she'd go without me and we wouldn't have much of a relationship. So she must be someone who's interested in a nice quiet life, with nice quiet interests. But not socially dysfunctional.

Kinetik · Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 1:31 am Post subject:

I've never been out with a girl who had social anxiety, but I think I'd like to. I'm sick of always covering up little things to appear "normal". It'd be nice to just say "no I can't do that event" and it would be obvious and acceptable as to why not. Nobody's ever understood me in a relationship way as a result of things like that, and I probably did weird some girls out in doing so. My anxiety is fairly mild though, so I've always been alright with faking, since it's something I resigned myself to having to do. Still, it'd be nice to be able to be myself completely.

Emma · Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 5:03 am Post subject:

I would prefer someone with social anxiety, then I wouldn't have to put up with jerks and their stupid insensitive comments about it