I just found this "Becker" quote on romance, and remembered how much I loved it and agree with it.
"Romance is nothing more than the little morsel of cheese in a mousetrap that lures you into a position where the spring-loaded bar of reality snaps down on your neck. Romance sucks."
Becker is always so right about everything.
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Joined: Apr 23, 2005 Posts: 982 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 5:02 pm Post subject:
I personaly think love is about caring for a person as they are,loving and accpeting them as they are.. the good and bad.I also think honesty is a big part of love.. i think you should be able to confide in your true love without fear of judgement or being wrong, and be able to work around personal and life's problems openly with each other.This is probaly more about relationships in general than love.. but i think its important to be able to argue.. and the relationship not fall apart.Even if you love someone... no one is perfect and people are going to disagree make mistakes and upset each other.. so yeah.. the strength to survive life's little ups and downs and each others faults is a big part of it aswell i think.
Joined: Dec 05, 2005 Posts: 113 Location: Singapore
Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2006 3:13 am Post subject:
wow
that's a lot of saying about love
if u can't breath without it then u're trap in a force u know yet unknown?
what shit am i talking..
never mind .. is it sth like the star wars thing
it reminds me of that.. the darth vader's evil breath
i believe that many people mistake love as the initial feelings experienced when in " the honeymoon stage " which inevitably diminish. i believe love is the choice to accept someone for their faults and to work alongside and spiritually nurture and be nurtured spiritually for the development and evolution of our souls. it is trult a beautifull thing
I've never been in love so I wouldn't really know..It seems like a really great thing. I hope I do fall in love someday because I feel so empty inside, and it hurts, I know in the end love will hurt you even more but still I want it be apart of my life atleast once.
Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 6:57 pm Post subject: hope
Now I know most of you won't like my comment, but God is Love.
this is from the Bible.
1 John 4:7-
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is Love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved (loves) us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.
Unless you accept Jesus in your life you will not experience real love. We are dead to love until we come out of the darkness and that can only be achieved by asking Him in.
There something bigger than us going on.....but you can't see it until your blindfold is taken off.
I know I sound like the x-files or something but its true. When you accept Him you can see clearly the spiritual battle going on for our souls as well as God's love for us.
Joined: Jun 09, 2005 Posts: 334 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 7:00 pm Post subject:
um...I think love is when you want what's best for the person you're with...and you stop thinking about yourself all the time....
among other stuff....
like them making you feel happy
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