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jojosparkles
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 11:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

love is two bodies and one soul! Very Happy

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 2:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jojosparkles wrote:
love is two bodies and one soul! Very Happy


I dunno about that lol, I think it's more of two independant souls intertwining, you're still an individual in your own right, you still have your own opinions, beliefs and thoughts, but you share them and find compromises to 'fit' together and become 'soul mates'.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 2:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

oh i dunno tho cos i was like that with my friend and thought i found my soul mate cos we intertwined but i have found true love and it feels like we just one person..we do think the same..have the same beliefs and things and when im upset so is he..its really strange...i cant describe it..magical i guess Smile

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 3:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Aww Smile I guess I'm just concerned about losing my identity, cos it's what used to happen a lot in the past, seeing yourself as two individuals just seems better to me. Me and my boyfriend are not exactly likeminded lol, but we have an amazing connection, but that's what I always wanted, to remain an individual, different for everyone though Very Happy I think I'd get bored of someone who was like me, I like debates, intellectual conversation with two sides, but maybe it's cos of my star sign (gemini) I'm not just one personality so why would I want my boyfriend to be any different Laughing


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 4:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Crying or Very sad i cant comment ive been in love and i dont know what it means Question


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 5:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i think love is this all consuming primal thing, where you would do anything for that person and couldn't survive without them. I look at my boyfriend sometimes and feel so damm content and happy it's an indescribable feeling. You just feel really blessed to have that person around.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 13, 2006 6:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Love controls the world. I mean when you think about it why does anyone do anything, because of love right. Whether its the love for a friend, partner, religion, object, music.

And BrokenSmile I understand whay you were trying to say, it does seem like love is a big joke. Like no one truly loves someone if they constantly don't do what they want them to do, but these are selfish people who don't really know what it means, if they truly loved you they wouldn't let this get to them as much. You love someone because you see something in them that you feel is good, even though they may never necessarily do anything good. It's like a loving parent, even though as a toddler they may do all the wrong things, and even as an adult they may do things that they may not approve of but they still love their child. It's because they feel connected to them. I don't know, it's hard to explain but it's the only thing that makes sense.

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 11:28 pm    Post subject: Love? Reply with quote

Love is a malignant tumor that has to be removed from my system ASAP! It is a cancer. It does nothing productive for me. I loved my parents (and still love em somehow)... they just talk shit about me and say all kinds of hurting words whenever I'm around them. They used to beat me with a belt when I was little. My dad used to do a flurry of punches all over me as if I was a fuckin punching bag. Love was what stopped my fist from crashing into his face and from slapping my own mom.


I loved this girl so much. I did everything for her. Sacrificed everything... and what did I get in return? She threatened to call the cops on me and to her I was just a fuckin creepy stalker! In spite of all the love and care Ive given her, that was how she repayed me?!?


If I didnt love, I wouldnt been so hurt. If I do not seek love, I will not have depression and any of all these other mental problems.

Love is just a fucking tumor. I repeat. LOVE IS A CANCER THAT NEEDS TO BE CURED ASAP!!! A disease. Something that needs to be expelled from my body.

I'm havin a hard time expelling it. Its like a rock-hard piece of shit stuck up in my ass... Cuz I still have an instinct to love and care and it is hurting me like hell. Mad

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 11:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Does anybody really love anybody anyway?

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 7:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

tewstroke wrote:

And BrokenSmile I understand whay you were trying to say, it does seem like love is a big joke. Like no one truly loves someone if they constantly don't do what they want them to do, but these are selfish people who don't really know what it means, if they truly loved you they wouldn't let this get to them as much. You love someone because you see something in them that you feel is good, even though they may never necessarily do anything good. It's like a loving parent, even though as a toddler they may do all the wrong things, and even as an adult they may do things that they may not approve of but they still love their child. It's because they feel connected to them. I don't know, it's hard to explain but it's the only thing that makes sense.


Thanks for your words and for understanding me.
I guess ur right.


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