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Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2006 8:39 pm Post subject:
longlivesolitude wrote:
I can relate to the feeling about dating or not when you haven't fallen in love. Actually I'm having some of the same thoughts, because I'm also 18, had one girlfriend in my life and I'm writing a bit with a girl who I've talked to earlier and found nice and interesting, but who I'm not in love with.. A girlfriend isn't everything, and spending a lot of time with some person you don't really love, seems a waste of time and energy to me.
Longlive: it can take time to fall in love. That's one reason to date-- to see who's out there, to learn what you like and what you don't (what you THINK you like and dislike may not be so, ya know ), learn how to "do the relationship thing" (it IS complicated sometimes), spend time with good people, and maybe, perhaps, perchance, fall for one of them.
Usually, one doesn't fall in love prior to dating, and usually, when someone does, it's not "love" but obsession of infatuation (usually turn-offs to women, these things can come off as 'creepy'). Not saying it can't happen, but this is how it most often is.
So chat more and maybe spend some time with that girl. Who knows how you'll feel after some more time. And I also thought part of getting over SA was being able to spend time with more people and get by in life-- and of course most ppl in this world are going to be "people we don't really love"
(if I misinterpreted you post, I apologize in advance )
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), learn how to "do the relationship thing" (it IS complicated sometimes), spend time with good people, and maybe, perhaps, perchance, fall for one of them. 
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thanx 
