Talk about painting it black. Just because you've seen one side to a thing doesn't mean that's how it should be universally defined.
True, but I just can't imagine becoming a happier person, by having sex, lol. I'm 100% sure I wouldn't I wish life were that easy. Sometimes I do fancy sex though. Maybe I'm human after all.
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Just 2 and I'm 31. I'm very shy around women. There have even been a bunch of times a chicks has come onto me, but I have a hard time handling the pressure.
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 4:25 pm Post subject:
Erm not willing to say the exact number but its not alot more than a handfull,couple of em were sorta me experimenting when i was young like at school.A few drink/drug fueled flings and a couple of relationships.
I remember wanted to loose my v so bad when i was younger and actualy had plenty of chances to,but i can remember being so scared Wish i could of waited tho rather than loosing it for the sake of loosing it.Sex for me is so much better when its with somone you care for rather than just lust.Its still about pleasure but theres just more of a connection.
Erm not willing to say the exact number but its not alot more than a handfull,couple of em were sorta me experimenting when i was young like at school.A few drink/drug fueled flings and a couple of relationships.
I remember wanted to loose my v so bad when i was younger and actualy had plenty of chances to,but i can remember being so scared Wish i could of waited tho rather than loosing it for the sake of loosing it.Sex for me is so much better when its with somone you care for rather than just lust.Its still about pleasure but theres just more of a connection.
you're describing where I am now when you talk about wanting to lose your virginity so desperately. Then when I had the chance I cheesed out. How did you finally get up the nerve to go ahead and lose it?
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Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 4:46 am Post subject:
Enough. 'Nuff said.
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Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 4:28 pm Post subject:
Thelema wrote:
you're describing where I am now when you talk about wanting to lose your virginity so desperately. Then when I had the chance I cheesed out. How did you finally get up the nerve to go ahead and lose it?
I thought i was like the only guy who was scared of sex or needed a guidebook on how to use his equipment lmao.Erm to put it bluntly i didnt get much choice in the matter lol... and i was only very young at like 14/15 and it was with an older girl who kinda took controll.
But honest to god i wanted to loose it so bad... but would chicken out all the time,but anyway im digressing even tho i lost my virginity young, sex still scared me tho for a few years after that till eventualy i just found a girl i could be honest with and just said look im not confident in bed ect and we learnt together and she taught me how to please her ect.Which really did take the pressure off and gave me alot of confidence.
So yeah my advice to you would be to find a girl you can communicate with well and just be honest with her... and if shes experienced.. let her teach you,if shes not experienced either just have fun learning together Takes alot of guts for a guy to say hes not confident in bed,but im sure its better to admit it and have the girl help you rather than try and fake and fumble ya way through it.
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I wish life were that easy. Sometimes I do fancy sex though. Maybe I'm human after all.
any takers 
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Wish i could of waited tho rather than loosing it for the sake of loosing it.Sex for me is so much better when its with somone you care for rather than just lust.Its still about pleasure but theres just more of a connection.
