shy guys

Nital · Posted: Thu Nov 18, 2004 10:22 pm Post subject:

That's good advice johnoo but it's easier said than done, For me at least anyway. I've always tried to tell myself not to care what anyone else thinks about me, and just be myself, but it just doesn't work. There's always a nagging feeling that every little thing i do will affect others opinions of me in a negative way. I've gotten a lot better in recent years, but its still there to some degree.

shyboy1 · Posted: Sun Dec 05, 2004 12:28 am Post subject:

I beat you all - going on 21, one good friend, never even close to getting a gf. I have social phobia, so yeah. I can understand everything you guys are saying. Crying or Very sad

Sempfy · Posted: Fri Dec 24, 2004 12:37 pm Post subject:

I'm even worse, 22 and never had a gf, nor even been close to a girl in my life. Sure, I've had girls I've liked over the years, but there's no way I could ever say anything, I get all flustered jes being around girls. If I even try to talk, I'll start stuttering and blush, it's so annoying.

Dill · Posted: Fri Dec 24, 2004 4:35 pm Post subject:

Hey u guys are lucky. At least u had girls at ur school.
I went to a all boys boarding school. Embarassed

( Parents put me there cos I never left the house)
So I had no women skills whatsoever. But I later realised that women are friendlier than men. So I find them much easier to talk to than talking to men.
Most women like men who are different. So being shy has a plus.

Guest · Posted: Sun Feb 13, 2005 10:06 pm Post subject:

My sp is really anoying when i was around 14 id already had a thew girlfriends and was kind of a stud but then once i got sp and it got bad i cant even say hi it just sucks bigtime

blank · Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2005 11:13 pm Post subject:

Louise82 · Guest

Hello

Well I'm a female (age 22) and I have only ever had one boyfriend, who I'm still with, I met him just after I left school. I was bullied alot at school for being a "geek".......*blush* (that is still embarrasing for me to admitt). I see all the "popular", confident, mouthy girls (who bullied me) still even today needless to say most have been young teenage Mothers and have kids to numerous Fathers.

In my experience I suffered greatly at school for being shy and anti-social with girls and mainly boys but I think it made me a better person in one respect.

You all seem like lovely guys/girls and I'm sure you'll meet someone special soon, just be patient. Smile

Guest · Posted: Fri Feb 18, 2005 8:23 pm Post subject:

ehe...i loved this girl since i was in grade 9 when i was back in high school and she loved me too...but i never got to tell my love.. Crying or Very sad

...u noe we never talked at all..but we got to know each other by comunicating with our eyes....cute eh? Wink

....but that sucked...never realy got togher...

Guest · Posted: Fri Feb 18, 2005 9:06 pm Post subject:

sometimes the shy guy/girl will be your best friend of the opposite sex who obviously might have a crush on you.

GettingThere · Posted: Sat Feb 19, 2005 5:32 am Post subject: Re: shy guys