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  1. Solitude

    Hello again!

    Hey all. I posted here a few years ago, and I've made a return. I've been diagnosed with "mild depression" before, but I feel like I have much more going on. My SA is getting out of control and it feels like it's getting worse with age. I've been feeling pretty down and just disconnected...
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    Sigh... My last social gathering for a while

    The only two people that I actually consider friends invited me over for their daughter's 1st birthday party today. There were about a dozen people there, most of which I didn't know. There was one couple there that I used to be friends with, but I have flaked out on them and blown them off so...
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    Pushing someone away and then missing them?

    Is this common for an avoidant? To push someone away and basically cut off all contact, and then incessantly miss them? :confused:
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    World of Warcraft

    This has been my escape for the past 5 years off and on, more on than off. I've quit a couple of times because it had gotten to the point of me just playing waaaay too much. I just started back up a couple of weeks ago though... Sometimes I feel like I am wasting my life away by spending too...
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    I suck at life, relationships, and friendship.

    Hey, haven't been here in a while. I'm Jason, I just turned 29 and I'm in the military stationed in Germany. I'm not up to date on the terms and labels related to social phobia, but I would say I'm socially avoidant. I've been a loner all of my life. In my day to day work life, I don't have...
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    The interwebz can be a scary place

    So... I signed up for an online dating site a few days ago. I found someone in my area that seems really cool. She's great looking, but also your non-typical girl, which is what I think is what attracted me. I mean non-typical by the fact that she's really into art, anime, comics, video...
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    Hey There

    I'm new here. I'm a 28 year old American guy living in Germany for the next couple of years. It's cool to find a place with people that struggle with public/personal interaction like I do. I've been shy all my life, but it's something much more. I can barely even go to the grocery store by...
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