I think a lot of people do, but with SA suffers we just take it to another level. Some people might think like that and can brush it off, with us it's not the same story though. We internalize everything we do and say. Really though, I think the whole SA thing is pretty ridiculous, you have to laugh at it sometimes there is really no real world consequences to our actions. It's all in our heads. I don't know but I'm starting to think all of these things like therapy and learning how to have self-esteem get pointless at times. I think the real secret might be in learning how to control our minds and condition ourselves to not think these thoughts. At least that's where I'm at right now.