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Old 05-01-2009  
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Default SERIOUS!!! penis goes limp during intercourse

Hi there, Im new here.

Ok, when I am with a girl, I can stay rock hard forever during the foreplay session. It wont go limp or anything. But, just when everything feels right and its time for the condom to go on, thats when it happens.... I get scared for SOME ****IN STUPID REASON and my penis goes limp....

Ive already had one girl dump because of this. Its not gonna happen again, because either I will take viagra, or just shoot myself IN THE ****IN HEAD....
This is so frustrating, I cant figure out the cause, or cure.

Can anyone help me with this? Im totally lost, and everything seems hopeless because I feel like Im in chains in the bottom of a lake somewhere. And if this is what my life will be like, then its really not worth living, this really REALLY sucks....
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1) Does the girl have ******l dentata?
2) Are you afraid of condom leaking and getting girl pregnant?
3) Are you afraid of sexual intercourse?

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"Our greatest battles are that with our own minds"

"Do not follow where the path may lead; go instead where there is no path and leave a trail"
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Try ******, it worked for me. Get samples from your doctor and refuse to pay for the drug.
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Could be performance anxiety?Plus when you stop to put the comdom on you have a break in sexual activity so to say,it might help if you and your sexual partner find and "intresting" way to put it on.

Other than tha be open about it...i know it must be awkward as hell but a decent girl should be understanding and be able to help.
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Questions:
1) Does the girl have ******l dentata?
2) Are you afraid of condom leaking and getting girl pregnant?
3) Are you afraid of sexual intercourse?

Answers:
1) No
2) No, Im pretty sure condom wont break. Thats not the fear.
3) Im not afraid of intercourse, as I am making a useless tool of myself.

The problem is that Im afraid of what she will think of me. Its so embarrasing to let my d-ick go limp during intercourse.... all these thoughts are running through my head, from the past, all the awkward moments, people Ive met, dumb things Ive done, etc... and then it goes limp because I start thinking. I cant control it.

Look if it helps, Im 25, I dont have any health issues "thank GOD", Im in shape and my member is good size. The problem is in my head and I just dont know how to cure it. This only happens for the first 3 or 4 times I have sex with a new girl, then it goes away and I can bang hard even if Im badly drunk. But it wont fly with this new girl Im dating, she wants things here and now!

I think I need a psychologist...

Last edited by Remus; 05-01-2009 at 03:43 PM.. Reason: bit *tooo* much imformation thx
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If you're afraid of it going limp, you should try wearing a penis ring (****-ring). It keeps blood in the penis so it remains fully erect as long as you put it on.

My favorite quotes:

"Our greatest battles are that with our own minds"

"Do not follow where the path may lead; go instead where there is no path and leave a trail"
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maybe the females you are with are too demanding. someone above said it: any decent girl isn't going to give you slack about it. it happens! i'm sure you've already tried but try not to THINK so much when you're in the process.
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hey Ashiene, Ive heard that before from a friend. Thats what Im going to get later today. Give it a shot, see what happens. Thanks for the advice, I really need to break this barrier. Once thats done, the sex will feel like a pleasure, rather than a some "chore". Like, better do her right tonight or else its ultimate failure in which case she dumps me and has bad thoughts about me throughout her life.


When I was 21 and some girl I was dating asked me to stay over. We were going to sleep and started making out and playing around, I was so ******* horny, and she said alot of nice things about me and my you know what. But then, when time came for the condom to go on, I said I felt sleepy and drunk and we went to sleep. I was so f-u-c-k-i-n afraid of screwing up and looking bad that it ruined my whole feeling. I couldnt do it and went to sleep with blue balls the size of grapefruits. I was so pissed and humiliated the next day....
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this is SP World not SI World (Sexual Intercourse world) isent it ? :/

I like Carrot & Coriander soup..I make it myself...yes thats right..I can cook ladies

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Maybe you could try talking about it with the girl you're seeing before you have sex? I mean not immediately before you have sex, but just some time when you're alone together having a chat over a couple of drinks or something. If you tell her something like sometimes you want to please a girl so much that you end up getting too stressed to enjoy things and lose your erection - then you won't be worrying about how to explain it to her if it does happen. If she's a kind person (and I wouldn't want to be with someone who wasn't kind!) then she'll be understanding. I agree with Danfalc that it sounds like performance anxiety. Girls get it too, but nature's a little kinder to us in that it doesn't show as much!
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