Hello, I'm trying really hard not to let them get to me. It makes me wonder what they were doing on that site anyway. I'm not desparate or anything but i am unable to go out and meet people male or female like normal people so how am I going to do that. Having a workmate is definately out of the question as they have just shown how shallow they are.
In a way it just makes me want to overcome this and show them that I am better than them, the biggest problem is that there is only 98 000 people where I live and the resources are limited so I am stuck. Maybe there is a counsellor somewhere who has experience working with social phobia that can help me. I will have to look. All I know is that there are no support groups.
I have got no intention of contacting anyone near to where I live on that site, as many of them are self employed and I'd die if I picked the wrong one and it was a taxi driver, like I said alot of them have now put their own profile on there. The same ones keep clicking on my profile every day.