So hard to stay positive when you're put down in social situations

newguy1985 · 07-03-2009, 06:17 PM

Whether I'm really put down or if im just overly sensitive, its so hard to stay positive when all I want to do is beat the **** out of these people / say **** to them because of the intense frustration of being looked down on and not fitting in.

I know I need to suck it up and stay positive, but damn its hard as fcuk.

As much as I want to be negative and say "fcuk these people i can make other friends", the best solution is the stay positive so I can truely make other friends (and not imagine how great it woudl be) and THEN have them feel like **** when I ignore their asses

/emo rant

satstrn · 07-03-2009, 08:45 PM

Have you gotten to know them? How often do you talk to them and how often is it that they put you down? They sound like dbags to me, theres a lot of those people around... that aint your fault. You should like you said make other friends. Thats a bitch though, try this site it makes a lot of sense endingsocialanxiety.net

newguy1985 · 07-03-2009, 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by satstrn

Have you gotten to know them? How often do you talk to them and how often is it that they put you down? They sound like dbags to me, theres a lot of those people around... that aint your fault. You should like you said make other friends. Thats a bitch though, try this site it makes a lot of sense endingsocialanxiety.net

I've known them for years. not so much put donw as "o who cares hes a werido". Theres also the fact that I suffer from ocd, anxiety, and depression so alot of times i seem "lost" and "confused", would say "dumb" things or "socially awkward" things. Thats when they go "wtf?!!? and poke fun" I might as well be a curtosy friend. Technically not their fault but can be extremely frustrating

NothingElseMatters · 07-05-2009, 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by newguy1985

Whether I'm really put down or if im just overly sensitive, its so hard to stay positive when all I want to do is beat the **** out of these people / say **** to them because of the intense frustration of being looked down on and not fitting in.

I know I need to suck it up and stay positive, but damn its hard as fcuk.

As much as I want to be negative and say "fcuk these people i can make other friends", the best solution is the stay positive so I can truely make other friends (and not imagine how great it woudl be) and THEN have them feel like **** when I ignore their asses

/emo rant

i've been in this situation.actually the exact same.i felt bad everytime i met with this ppl cause i knew i just didn fit in and they thought i was a weirdo.best solution...stay away from them.i am saying that cause you said that you want to stay positive and make some friends,but it seems to me that you desire more to revenge them than make new healthy relationships.realize that even though you make new friends,the other ones that you hate probably won't give a s***.so be careful not to feel frustrated if they don't feel 'like s***' as you said.just focus on making new friends and forget the others.