so the only girl to ever actually like me...

...is leaving today (we live on college campus). I'm pretty sad because I don't know how long it's gonna be before I get another girl to like me..Plus I had my first kiss with her and shared a bed a couple times (didn't do anything though)..

So I just thought I'd post my sob story lol and do you think I should try to see her one last time before she leaves? I don't know if I have the courage to do that, because the only times I see her I usually have alcohol in my system, and I don't want to be drunk the last time I see her..
 

RedRibbons

Well-known member
You might regret it if you don't go see her.. To at least say bye.. And maybe give her your e-mail or number or something, unless you've already done that?

The thing we fail to do sometimes is step out of ourselves and ask how we would react to ourselves, if we were someone else..

You can step out of yourself, and if this girl likes you, which she clearly does (at LEAST as a friend), you can see she would be happy to see you before she left.. hmm?

Anyway, just try looking at you, outside of you.. And it will give you the courage. Keep a positive mind too.. lol cause nothing really works if you approach it negatively. :)
 

GloomySunday

Well-known member
Try and imagine that you're quite old and you're looking back on your life. The scene in your mind is what's happening now.

Don't look back when you're older and curse yourself for an opportunity missed. Rejections we can get over, in time. Missed opportunities never come around again. Those are harder to get over. The 'what ifs' of life.

Go for it. Just do what is in your heart. Be yourself and be honest with her. Don't play games. If it helps, write her a heartfelt letter and give it to her before she goes.

If she's leaving anyway, there's nothing really to lose.

Let us know how it goes.
 

Eledee

Active member
this is actually really similar to my story, except I was the girl that was leaving!

my friend told me on my last night that he was going to miss me and had grown fond of me. He asked could we meet up again, and we have been going out now for about 6 weeks!

I knew we were close, but I wasn't really sure if he felt the same way, and I was so relieved when we had that chat literally about 30 mins before I left!

Do whatever u feel is right. Good luck to you! :D
 

JonnyD

Well-known member
if i were in your postion you know what would i do:

I would be sad as you... and i would think of her all the time... and think of talking to her one last time... I would even walk to the door, but then suddenly i would come back thinking stupid things to block myself ...

then when she was gone i would feel more depressend and sad because i nerver told her anything. And i would hurt myself with that feeling months away.

well... DON'T BE LIKE ME!

please don't take it like i'm trying to push you, i just don't want to see people feeling like me...


Eledee is right:

Do whatever u feel is right. Good luck to you!
 

Dodger

Well-known member
I would talk to her if I were you. In high school there was this one girl who I talked to sometimes, originally she said hi to me first but then I grew to like her and we talked a bit. Before we graduated I did get her email address because I asked so it is worth it trust me.
 
thanks for the advice guys!!

well I didn't have the guts to go over to her room and talk to her...buuuuut it doesn't matter because she came over to say bye again just as she was leaving, and I got her email and everything :D
 
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