Originally Posted by GettingThere
I beleive that some guys try too hard.
In my experience I have found that I met more women when I wasn't looking to do so than when I was really trying. I think that it has a lot to do with being more relaxed and just being yourself. When you want to meet someone really bad than you tend to get uptight and to talk more seriously than you would under other circumstances. This gives the wrong impression to the girl/woman despite your best efforts to try and act "cool".
Ive done both.... I can go for months on end not bothering to look for girls and just "being myself" and girls dont go near me and other times I make a real effort and the same thing happens
either way no matter what I do girls make it clear to me that Im NOT ACCEPTABLE to them
tonight for instance, I simply do not learn, yet again I decided that staying at home alone wont help my situation so I was stupid enough to spend $100 on new clothes and headed into town. all I managed to accomplish was spending another $100 - $150 on alcohol and be told YET AGAIN by girls that Im not good enough
Im sick to ****ing death of it. Make an effort or not make an effort it makes no difference. I have as much chance of meeting a girl under my house or in the attic as I do out in public.
oh well, Im overweight and unconfident so I guess I deserve to be mocked
I hear the cremation diet helps you lose excess weight really fast, might have to give that one a try I think