Some people are RETARDED

Tab

Well-known member
I'm so angry, pissed, and anxious, and everything else right now. Heres what happened: I had to go with my cousins gf to pick up her brother at his friends house. I wanted to get the hell out of there before the mother got home because this lady is fucked in the head. Anyway! once she arrived home everyone started chatting one thing led to another and the topic of social anxiety came up! Well apparently her son has it and then the rest of them told her I have it too. Well if thats not bad enough she starts saying a few things: 1) did your family doctor diagnose you? Oh well he shouldn't have thats like going to him if you have something wrong with your eyes! you need to go to a specialist! 2) oh your on medication! oh you took the easy way out! 3) Oh the only way to get rid of it is to go to the Royal Ottawa (the fucking mental hospital!!!) cuz they have a good program there!

I can't even begin to describe how mad, embarrassed and shocked I was when she started saying these things. I took the easy way out?! My god, this lady thinks shes an expert in everything, her kids are messed cuz of the way she treats them. I'm really upset cuz everything I'm doing is the 'easy way' and I'm still struggling with this. I wanted to punch her. :evil: :x :evil:
 

hayashi

Active member
Lol wow she was pretty ignorant there. But I cant say I understand how you feel no one has ever brought up my social anxiety issues in front of a group of people but I could understand what that would feel like. :?
 

Tab

Well-known member
I didn't even try and correct her cuz shes one of those people who will defend themselves even if they know they are wrong. Shes so full of herself. She started saying right in front of her daughter that shes going to have to go to the hospital and be put on a feeding tube if she doesn't gain weight. She's always trying to give other people advice on things she knows nothing about. Anyone who she meets she starts immediately asking what their background is, where they go to school, what are their interests. Its not small talk its like an interview. An interview from a night mare.
 

cicada1000

Member
wow, she sounds like my aunt who has my cousin (who probably has SA also) convinced that he is autistic and should never have children because they might end up autistic also! (she thinks I'm autistic too :eek: ) Best to ignore these people....or just laugh about them if possible.

oh and drugs are not the easy way out! Dealing with SA requires a lot of courage whether with drugs or not!
 

Tab

Well-known member
lol wow thats pretty fucked. But I try and ignore these people and its always these negative comments I can't forget about. And it was in front of all these people and my biggest problem is that they will believe her
 

chris88

New member
I really feel for you Tab. That would have killed me hey. Some people should really learn when to shut their mouths.
 
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