strip clubs???

Why

Why

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well today while i was working out with my buddy, he says "me and XXXXX are going to a strip club this friday, you should come."

my first thought was "no way... i dont belong there, too shy and would be uncomfortable"

but then after some persuasion from him and some thoughts about my life, I decided to go.

I raelized i never ever take risks, never push outside my comfort zone and this is the perfect opportunity. These two guys are pretty close friends so it could/probly be fun.

I mean whats the worst outcome? I lose 20 bucks and have a bad time? I'll take that chance to hang out on a friday night and push myself out there.
Besides as a college male student, i think i should experience everything at least once (even strip club lol). I really have to develop this mentality of "whats the worst that can happen compared to the good results??"


Maybe after friday, ill take more risks.. like going up to random girls and talking to them.


therefore i challenge fellow SA'ers to push themselves and go for something you dont usually do, if i can you can.


ALSO WHATS SOME RULES/TIPS I NEED IN A STRIP CLUB?? LOL
 
NickyNacker

NickyNacker

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"whats the worst that can happen compared to the good results??"

That's a great way to think, I was just telling myself to think that way the other day lol
 
PunkRotten

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Personally I think strip clubs are stupid. I dont get anything out of it and certainly dont like blowing money. Oh, which brings me to a tip. Make sure you have money to hand out they may ask you to leave if you arent handing money to girls. Thats about it.


Ive been in one bar in mexico where they had strippers, thats about it for me when it comes to strip clubs.
 
Phobologist

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Why said:
well today while i was working out with my buddy, he says "me and XXXXX are going to a strip club this friday, you should come."

my first thought was "no way... i dont belong there, too shy and would be uncomfortable"

but then after some persuasion from him and some thoughts about my life, I decided to go.

I raelized i never ever take risks, never push outside my comfort zone and this is the perfect opportunity. These two guys are pretty close friends so it could/probly be fun.

I mean whats the worst outcome? I lose 20 bucks and have a bad time? I'll take that chance to hang out on a friday night and push myself out there.
Besides as a college male student, i think i should experience everything at least once (even strip club lol). I really have to develop this mentality of "whats the worst that can happen compared to the good results??"


Maybe after friday, ill take more risks.. like going up to random girls and talking to them.


therefore i challenge fellow SA'ers to push themselves and go for something you dont usually do, if i can you can.


ALSO WHATS SOME RULES/TIPS I NEED IN A STRIP CLUB?? LOL
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Hahahha awesome bro! When I turned 18 I went to strip clubs about five or six times (by myself all but once), and I used to go to this peep show also, maybe 15 times or such. For future reference, don't go to peep-shows, they are grimey with germs and the girls are ugly. But as for strip clubs, here is my advice:


1. Relax. You're there to see some tits and pussy and have a good time, just like everyone else. Let your eyes go where they will and don't worry if they can tell youre getting a boner. That's the POINT. It's weird not to get turned on.

2. Keep your hands to yourself unless you get a private dance. If you get a private dance ask her permission first. DONT BREAK THIS ONE.

3. Decide how much you will spend ahead of time and bring it in cash, DO NOT BRING A CREDIT OR ATM CARD. Strip clubs charge $7 transaction fees to use their atms. My rule was not to spend more than $35 a visit.

4. DO NOT DRINK TOO MUCH. Tipsy is okay, drunk is unacceptable.

5. Be a gentleman and never call the ladies names, or treat them in a disrespectful manner.

6. Strip clubs usually have three songs to each performance. Tip the girls ones. Dont waste a lot of money untill they get naked (no more than $5). When they get naked you can spend another $5 or whatever your limit per dance is.

7. Don't mooch of another guy's dance, unless he's your friend.

8. Don't freak out when the dancer TOUCHES YOU, that's allowed. :D

9. Don't tip some bitch who doesn't like what she's doing and is being boring. Just go sit in the back row and wait for a more exciting girl.

10. Don't go jerk off in the bathroom. Certainly don't make provisions so you can do it "undetected".

11. Don't buy a private dance. It costs $20 - $40 and you don't get much. All the action will cost at least $60 and you may catch something.

12. Do engage the girls in conversation when they come to hustle you for dances by making chit chat with you. Many are very intelligent college girls and like to talk. If you don't want a dance, politely refuse when they ask.

13. HAVE FUN!
 
Why

Why

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haha thanks

i dont have to worry about drinking since im underage and no lapdances either

just there to see the girls and experience
 
PunkRotten

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You can see tits ond pussy on the internet, why pay to see it at a strip club?

Anywy its your business. I only agree about being more risky, but going to a stip club is plain stupid IMO. Guys like to go alot of the time cause it makes them feel like a man. But you're a fool cause you are handing your money out only to "look" or barely "touch" some girls who dont give a shit about you. Everyone knows what a pussy looks like so whats the big deal? Like I say, you can see tits and pussy on the internet for free. Or better yet, get a GF and you can see it and touch it all you want. If you wanna get out of your comfort zone pick something else.

Go ahead and got for the experience. It might be nice to experience it once.
 
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Phobologist

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PunkRotten said:
You can see tits ond pussy on the internet, why pay to see it at a strip club?

Anywy its your business. I only agree about being more risky, but going to a stip club is plain stupid IMO. Guys like to go alot of the time cause it makes them feel like a man. But you're a fool cause you are handing your money out only to "look" or barely "touch" some girls who dont give a shit about you. Everyone knows what a pussy looks like so whats the big deal? Like I say, you can see tits and pussy on the internet for free. Or better yet, get a GF and you can see it and touch it all you want. If you wanna get out of your comfort zone pick something else.

Go ahead and got for the experience. It might be nice to experience it once.
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Well I stopped going because I realized it was a waste of money and most of the dancers had a bad attitude and seemed not to like me. I would try to make eye-contact ( out of fear of objectifying them ) and they wouldn't even look at me sometimes. I think it's great to do it once or twice, it's a man thing. But don't make it a habit. In strip clubs the guys are the ones being pimped.
 
PunkRotten

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Its a business, they only want that money from you. And if you do get in the habit of going it becomes and expensive and worthless addiction. Ive never spent 1 cent on a stripper.
 
PunkRotten

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Anomaly said:
I must be as weird as they come.
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Me too, looking at girls doesnt get me excited at all. Even looking at naked pics is boring. The only kinda thing I can get into is intercourse, but with a girl I have a connection with. I cant get into sleeping with a girl just to get off (like a hooker, or a one night stand with a slut). I can get off by myself if I need to.
 
Remus

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I went to one on a "college dare", three of us went, one chickened when paying to get in, so two of us left, I stuck with it for two hugely embarrasing hours, I found it humiliating and the worst thing ever!

I hid in my hands rather than look at the naked women

yuk
 
Noca

Noca

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I went to a strip club once and had this hot gurl give me a lap dance. She let me touch her tits and stuff while she was topless. Was pretty hot but it cost me $20 lol. At the time I had lots of money and didnt care though. Was fun but I have no desire to go again.
 
Satine

Satine

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I'd like to add to Phobiologists tips, if I may:

Phobologist said:
1. Relax. You're there to see some tits and pussy and have a good time, just like everyone else. Let your eyes go where they will and don't worry if they can tell youre getting a boner. That's the POINT. It's weird not to get turned on.
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This is mostly true, just with the alteration that it's perfectly okay not to get turned on, too. My other half and I used to go to fetish clubs and he reported not being turned on even by some of the more blistering scenes we saw there. Thinking back on them later, they were a turn-on. But he says at the time he almost felt as if he were observing and just, well, filing the memory away for later reference.

So if you feel the same way, simply take it as a bonus: you're remaining cool and collected in the moment.

2. Keep your hands to yourself unless you get a private dance. If you get a private dance ask her permission first. DONT BREAK THIS ONE.
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Absolutely. The rules are strict with regards the privacy of the dancers, so stick with this one.

3. Decide how much you will spend ahead of time and bring it in cash, DO NOT BRING A CREDIT OR ATM CARD. Strip clubs charge $7 transaction fees to use their atms. My rule was not to spend more than $35 a visit.[/QUOET]

A good one, too. A man I used to know spent £90 on dances after he started to get drunk. Then was distraught the following day. He'd just gotten into a groove of feeling really generous.

4. DO NOT DRINK TOO MUCH. Tipsy is okay, drunk is unacceptable.
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See above.

5. Be a gentleman and never call the ladies names, or treat them in a disrespectful manner.
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Absolutely. Calling the girl names, including calling a shy/unconfident girl a bitch (see below) is a no no. However you perceive the girls, they're there because they can put on a show and are able to dance. Not all of us are naturals at that. And they're probably dealing with some vicious politics with the other girls. Alternatively, she's lacking confidence but has taken a job dancing because she really needs the money. All of that together means she's due respect no matter what her circumstances.

6. Strip clubs usually have three songs to each performance. Tip the girls ones. Dont waste a lot of money untill they get naked (no more than $5). When they get naked you can spend another $5 or whatever your limit per dance is.
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I'll need to take Phobiologist's advice on this opne - I've not been to a strip club myself. But... d'you reckon? A girl in a little bit of clothing must surely be exciting also?

7. Don't mooch of another guy's dance, unless he's your friend.
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Like most other aspects of the sex industry, strip clubs are highly exploitative, and that means you, too. Chances are the girl will offer a group dance, which means not that you can share out the cost of a single dance, but that she will charge each of you in the group for a single dance each. Whether you manage to get one dance for this or more is up to you to debate, but you may have some bargaining power there.

8. Don't freak out when the dancer TOUCHES YOU, that's allowed. :D
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You can always request not to be touched, I guess. Whichever you prefer, really.

9. Don't tip some bitch who doesn't like what she's doing and is being boring. Just go sit in the back row and wait for a more exciting girl.
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Because if she's an unwilling dancer, she obviously doesn't need the money she's there to earn, however unwillingly :rolleyes: If she's obviously not enjoying it, at least off the girl a smile for encouragement.

10. Don't go jerk off in the bathroom. Certainly don't make provisions so you can do it "undetected".
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I hear this may not be adviseable, too.

11. Don't buy a private dance. It costs $20 - $40 and you don't get much. All the action will cost at least $60 and you may catch something.
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Again, the sex industry is highly exploitative and if they can extract more money from you, they will. But it's all up to your budget and how much action you want. I get the impression you'll see quite a lot of a girl's body simply based on competition between dancers in the main club, but that may depend on the club itself.

12. Do engage the girls in conversation when they come to hustle you for dances by making chit chat with you. Many are very intelligent college girls and like to talk. If you don't want a dance, politely refuse when they ask.
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And you will get asked a lot. This may get boring to you after a while if all you want is to observe the general goings-on, but I think it would be good manners to buy even just one. Past that, the drinks will be expensive, so you'll be paying your way just by having a few beers. Unless you're rich, may I suggest you drink slowly :D

13. HAVE FUN!
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Absolutely.
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PunkRotten

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Before this goes any further, I'd like to apologize beforehand about any crudeness I may have written. I dont wanna offend anyone.
 
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cruisin

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I been to a strip club once, it was for a friends 18th birthday earlier this year.
I didn't enjoy it at all. I analyze every single thing to the bone, so to me the whole night was terrible. I knew the girls were dancing because a) they have no father figure or b) they just want easy money from vulnerable guys, and I just felt dirty and desperate.

My friend got a lapdance right next to me and it just seemed disgusting that a chick would resort to dancing naked in a dark room full of drunk people, but hey I guess I shouldn't judge people that think it is right to make money by exploiting men who are under the influence of drugs that inhibit their spending.
 
Satine

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My other half tells me that when he went, he had a series of conversations with the girls that melded one into the next. Here's approximately how they went:

"Hi, do you want a dance?"
"No."
"Hi, do you want a dance?"
"No."
"Hi, do you want a dance?"
"No."
"Hi, do you want a dance?"
"No."
"Hi, do you want a dance?"
"No."
"Hi, do you want a dance?"
"No."
"Hi, do you want a dance?"
"No."
"Hi, do you want a dance?"
"No."

Et cetera ad nauseum...
 
neko

neko

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cruisin said:
I been to a strip club once, it was for a friends 18th birthday earlier this year.
I didn't enjoy it at all. I analyze every single thing to the bone, so to me the whole night was terrible. I knew the girls were dancing because a) they have no father figure or b) they just want easy money from vulnerable guys, and I just felt dirty and desperate.

My friend got a lapdance right next to me and it just seemed disgusting that a chick would resort to dancing naked in a dark room full of drunk people, but hey I guess I shouldn't judge people that think it is right to make money by exploiting men who are under the influence of drugs that inhibit their spending.
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I agree with you plus, about the bolded... I'm like this and some people get angry at me because of that or get very defensive, argue, etc. Sorry for being off topic.

I don't really get the point of stipclubs either. To me it's a complete waste of time and money. I'm not saying this cause I'm female, in fact I'm bi, but even if I were single, I wouldn't go there.

However, to the topic starter, this is your choice and I think there was some good advice here. Take notes, lol!
 
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cruisin

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Hey Neko. There's nothing to "get" about stripclubs. I'm a guy and all I can see to them is a black hole for cash. xD
I wonder if you can ever analyze something so much that there is nothing more to analyze?
 
Remus

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cruisin said:
I been to a strip club once, it was for a friends 18th birthday earlier this year.
I didn't enjoy it at all. I analyze every single thing to the bone, so to me the whole night was terrible. I knew the girls were dancing because a) they have no father figure or b) they just want easy money from vulnerable guys, and I just felt dirty and desperate.
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I'm glad I'm not the only one who found it a cringeworthy experience, my "normal"mate did too lol
 
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