Talking about Clubbing on SPW

Satine

Well-known member
I have a question for everybody here. When one of our number talks about having been clubbing, does anyone here find it offensive, depressing, unhelpful, etc.? A certain someone (who we recently had problems with) has been posting abusive messages in my profile about this issue, and I wanted to clarify whether the community in general has any problem with talk of clubbing here?
 

StonedBob

Well-known member
I will just quote what I wrote to Juno on an other thread :
I understand how you're feeling, it must be frustrating to see other people having fun, going out, having friends when you don't. But that doesn't mean these people don't have SA. I also go out sometimes in a bar, because I can meet the people I know. But that doesn't mean I'm not feeling anxious in these places. I'm surrounded by a lot of people I don't know, sometime they begin to talk to me... I just feel horrible in these moments. I guess Satine and other people that go out are feeling exactly the same. SA is not about necesseraly about the fact of going out or not, but more about how you feel the anxiety and the impact it has on your social life.
And honestly, I haven't seen any offensive post from Satine, I have more the feeling she's just trying to help. About the fact she goes out, it's even positive for people in this forum, people can ask her advices on how to go out, how to decrease their anxiety in situations like this.
Anyway, PM me if you want to continue this discussion, we are in the wrong thread for that .
 

Nack

Banned
Personally, I don't really care whether you talk about clubbing or not. I rather hate clubbing myself, but i don't take offense if people wants to talk about it. But, that's just me.
 

Satine

Well-known member
Oh and wats really getting ridicolous is your incest talk giving daddy the u know what for pocket money and getting guys to do you so u can support your heroin addiction. Why post these things here. all i ask is for you to go cause you out of many of us are the odd one out. Im sorry but your life is easy, its good while others have it alot more tougher.

In case you'd conveniently forgotten, Joseph, you kept on accusing me, time and time again, of being promiscuous, when I'd been no such thing. I just said that I have incestuous sex with my dad on my profile because you keep on accusing me of things I haven't done. For example, you've accused me in the previous post of having sex on the dancefloor. When have I ever said that, and what evidence do you have that I've done any such thing? I haven't, and you haven't. So where's it coming from, Joseph?

Therefore, I'm thinking, 'sod it, why not just give you the juicy gossip you so badly want?'. It's not the truth, of course I haven't had sexual contact with my family members. But if you want to hear about slutty behavour so badly then there it is, and I hope you enjoy getting off on it.
 
Last edited:

StonedBob

Well-known member
Oh and wats really getting ridicolous is your incest talk giving daddy the u know what for pocket money and getting guys to do you so u can support your heroin addiction.
:eek::eek::eek::eek:
I don't know where you readed this, but I don't think Satine wrote something like this...
Anyway, the way Satine lives is after all her problem and we are not directly concerned about that (or at least not insult her).
Anyway, if people are going out, if they have girl/boyfriends, it's a good opportunity for people of this forum. I'm pretty sure these people are ready to give advices on how they do. Ask Satine, I'm pretty sure she's ready to help you, ask me, I could give you some advices so that you can go out in a bar.
I guess from your previous account that you're 20 or something like that. You're life is not over, psychologists can help you, we can help you, but you have to accept the help we are giving to you. It's not necesseraly what you're waiting for, but at least we are trying the best we can.
And again, if you need help, advices, I will try to do my best.
 

Satine

Well-known member
Ahh, you're a marvel. Thank you Remus.

Just out of curiousity, do you see when new people register? I'm suspecting that he'll follow old habits again, vis a vis signing up every time he's banned.
 

Remus

Moderator
Staff member
I can see everything, recently I've been going through the old logs seeing who was banned in the past and checking IPs and re-banning people, all to do with the changeover, he must have slipped through the net
 

Satine

Well-known member
Didn't get an actual PM, just messages on my profile.

But thanks for stepping in so quick on that.
 

Satine

Well-known member
Anyways Im satine the real satine Im just talking to myself cause dont know. Anyways I think both satine accounts should get banned I dont deserve to be here banned me or else ill get too addicted. so banned both satine accounts please

OH, and he tends to do that, too.
 
This sucks, already getting lots of messages on my profile from a certain someone, thanks Remus for being awesome! :D
 
Top