The reason why you are single.
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Gieky
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I love this!
sheilaannie
Member
"You Can't truly love until you given up on it"
sheilaannie
Member
I'm single because I love being free and not being criticized plus I given up on love I can't handle drama and thats what happens every time
S_Spartan
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You got that right!
Oh, when I think of the drama I have gone through in relationships.
And for what? Not worth it anymore.
incapable or just unable to atm??im beginning to think im incapable of a normal relationship..
Jarofloneliness
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Well that's what I'm usually think when I'm seeing a cute girls and also that she's out of my league.
S_Spartan
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yeah but do you guys know how many criminal, lazy, drug addict, tatted-up/pierced all over, guys get girls? Even prisoners get letters of female admiration.
The difference is that these guys don't care if the have something to offer or not. They are just being themselves and in their minds that should be enough.
Jarofloneliness
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Well I shouldn't say that here really but when it comes to your post ... I might just do it. I know that guy (BTW he's not my friend) from my college classes and he's a f****** pimp. He always gets a lot of girls by chatting online or even the ones he meets in various places where he moves in real life. He was in one relationship, break up and now just spending his whole life pimping with girls, having fun with them (one night stands) or he just get into relationship with them just to have fun (sex) with them couple of times and dumps them at the end hurting them
. Lately he had one night stand with one girl and it appears that she might be pregnant (feeling sick and vomiting) and yes he used a condom. Well you might ask me how do I know all that ? Well we sometimes talk on the breaks about girls and life in general. BTW he's just 18. I'm kind of jealous that he gets that many girls which he gets for granted and could have great relationship with but from the another side of it I'm totally p***** about it, when I'm thinking about it deeply how many girls he had hurt.
Yes I know that there are so many people like criminals, lazy, drug addicts, tatted-up/pierced all over. Mainly I can see it in Jerremy Kyle Show. There was one guy who was humiliating and treating that girl as dog. I'm serious about it and she was still with him. There was another case where drug-addict who was additionally on Benefits was just lying in bed and spending all our money on drugs. I mean it all happens and I must says life is unfair unfortunately. I don't really see a reason why girls shouldn't go after shy and very peaceful guy instead of wasting their time on the guys who would cheat on them without seconds thought and also should get their s*** together and respect women more. I mean, c'mon where is that justice right here ?? :idontknow:
S_Spartan
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Well I shouldn't say that here really but when it comes to your post ... I might just do it. I know that guy (BTW he's not my friend) from my college classes and he's a f****** pimp. He always gets a lot of girls by chatting online or even the ones he meets in various places where he moves in real life. He was in one relationship, break up and now just spending his whole life pimping with girls, having fun with them (one night stands) or he just get into relationship with them just to have fun (sex) with them couple of times and dumps them at the end hurting them
Well you might ask me how do I know all that ? Well we sometimes talk on the breaks about girls and life in general. BTW he's just 18. I'm kind of jealous that he gets that many girls which he gets for granted and could have great relationship with but from the another side of it I'm totally p***** about it, when I'm thinking about it deeply how many girls he had hurt.
Yes I know that there are so many people like criminals, lazy, drug addicts, tatted-up/pierced all over. Mainly I can see it in Jerremy Kyle Show. There was one guy who was humiliating and treating that girl as dog. I'm serious about it and she was still with him. There was another case where drug-addict who was additionally on Benefits was just lying in bed and spending all our money on drugs. I mean it all happens and I must says life is unfair unfortunately. I don't really see a reason why girls shouldn't go after shy and very peaceful guy instead of wasting their time on the guys who would cheat on them without seconds thought and also should get their s*** together and respect women more. I mean, c'mon where is that justice right here ?? :idontknow:
I'm not encouraging you to become an abusive criminal here...lol..but my point was that those types of guys usually don't give a f*** about anything. They don't look at a girl on the street and think "I'm not worthy". Many probably don't even have a concept of worthy or not worthy.
This can be exciting to a girl because:
1. it shows a certain amount of confidence. It takes a lot "nerve" to not give a f*** about anything. lol.
2. she wants to be the person to change the guy into something "decent".
It's a challenge.
There are girls out there who would truly(and I mean truly and genuinely) like a nice, well rounded guy but the allure of a challenge is a powerful thing to some girls.
sheilaannie
Member
Totally Agree Being Single is Awesome i have nothing holding me back!!! I'm not a needy person or co dependent I find that extremely pathetic in anybody I my be alone but I am never bored and no drama its freakin awesome I love having fun and being crazy and entertaining to myself I love me!!!!!
Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
Same here.
Gieky
Well-known member
After my last relationship, I've lost faith that there is anyone out there for me. I'm sick of the BS. I wouldn't say I'm happy being single, but I do feel relief and freedom. If I want to pig out, I don't have someone telling me that I'll get fat and people will think less of him for being with a fat girl. If I want to hang out with my guy friends, no one guilts me into not hanging out because they're paranoid I will cheat. If someone texts me and I forget to reply I won't get hounded about why. If I don't feel like going out, I won't get told I have become boring. I don't have to deal with the double standard about how it's ok for men to cheat but not women. I don't think all guys are like this but until I get some confidence and self esteem, this is the type of guy I will continue to attract. I'd rather be alone.
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>>>in theory many of these girls want a guy thats nice and will be genuine and caring but then they tend to get really bored with guys like this and want a challenge..
oh and btw, another reason im single is because i dont really crave or enjoy giving or receiving affection, foreplay and that other stuff that usually caps off a good relationship..its starting to make sense now why im single..lol..when i realistically look at how i live my life, everything points to me that i should stay single because a relationship couldnt work..
Luckylife
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Well I am working on it... I have admired a woman for a few months from afar but the other week I asked her to be a Facebook friend, she said yes to this. Now I know FB isn't universally enjoyed here but it can give you an insight into other lives. Her page was private if you weren't a friend. Now I could see posts etc I could also see how active she is - really surprising and it makes me wonder how I could fit in to her life. Having said this I would at least go on a date given the chance, but the words 'Culture Shock' spring to mind.
surewhynot
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Be wary of not crossing the line into obsession territory. Sounds like she barely knows you while you've been watching her for months. A relationship has to go both ways.
If you're really interested just ask her out and stop admiring her. That's not a healthy relationship.