Hero
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I find myself getting deeply attached to people, particuarly the opposite sex.
I've recently gotten together with a very cute girl, she's quite shy herself. We have a 'friends with benefits' situation, but I keep thinking of her. She's not really interested in anything long term or beyond this. I end up checking her Facebook, reading our last messages etc. I find it hard to make conversation with her- yet I feel happy around her as I have some sort of connection, and I find it so tricky to bond with others. However, now I feel nauseous, nervous and borderline obsessive with her. To her it's just occasional meetups, but for me sadly, it's neediness.
I've been in this exact same situation numerous times, but I don't know how to deal with it! I feel people rarely want me for me, just for what I can do for them
I've recently gotten together with a very cute girl, she's quite shy herself. We have a 'friends with benefits' situation, but I keep thinking of her. She's not really interested in anything long term or beyond this. I end up checking her Facebook, reading our last messages etc. I find it hard to make conversation with her- yet I feel happy around her as I have some sort of connection, and I find it so tricky to bond with others. However, now I feel nauseous, nervous and borderline obsessive with her. To her it's just occasional meetups, but for me sadly, it's neediness.
I've been in this exact same situation numerous times, but I don't know how to deal with it! I feel people rarely want me for me, just for what I can do for them
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