BreakThePain
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I always keep remembering, thinking and over-analyzing my past limited social experiences and thats one of the biggest things that hold me back from attempting to overcome this damn SA...basically those experiences are mostly my pathetic attempts at being "normal" like other people...those experiences vary between hanging out with groups or attempting to hook up with girls..no need to get into too much detail but lets just say that all of them pretty much turned into disasters and complete humilation to the point of not beeing able to look those people in the eye again. That was before I gave social life completely and decided to withdraw from any kind of "unnessesary" interaction with other people (about a couple of years ago) as a result of those failed experiences.
The good side of that was that I no longer get into such terrible situations. But ofcourse, I can't keep living like this..so I'm thinking of giving it yet another try. But I always think about my previous attempts and they hold me back due to fear of them happening again.
can anyone relate? any possible way to overcome this?
The good side of that was that I no longer get into such terrible situations. But ofcourse, I can't keep living like this..so I'm thinking of giving it yet another try. But I always think about my previous attempts and they hold me back due to fear of them happening again.
can anyone relate? any possible way to overcome this?