LilMissTragic,
I would be very interested in knowing exactly how you feel when you say:
"didn't feel comfortable being alone with a stanger (the instructor). I'm not sure why, i think its due to the close proximity...I dont like my aura being invaded."
What didn't you like about being close to the instructor? What was the problem with the proximity? How was your aura invaded, and how did this make you feel? Did it matter if the instructor was young or old, male or female, black or white, or is it all equally the same?