vitaminD
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Hi everyone,
I've been best friends with this one guy for almost 8 years now. He's only been in one relationship and while it was long term, it turned out to be a disaster. Afterward, he showed intense interest in someone who flat out told him that he was a pity date. It's been about three years since these relationships and he's now pretty much given up on women.
He became alot closer with me over the years, especially after my divorce last year. We recently travelled abroad and I got so many mixed signals from him. He'd always be obviously flirtatious and outgoing with me but would then immediately grow cold and distant before I got the chance to respond to his attempts. He's definitely shy around women, although I wouldn't necessarily call him love shy.
Is there something there? Does he like me? I don't want to do anything that takes him out of his comfort zone so how do I take it to the next level if there is something there?
I've been best friends with this one guy for almost 8 years now. He's only been in one relationship and while it was long term, it turned out to be a disaster. Afterward, he showed intense interest in someone who flat out told him that he was a pity date. It's been about three years since these relationships and he's now pretty much given up on women.
He became alot closer with me over the years, especially after my divorce last year. We recently travelled abroad and I got so many mixed signals from him. He'd always be obviously flirtatious and outgoing with me but would then immediately grow cold and distant before I got the chance to respond to his attempts. He's definitely shy around women, although I wouldn't necessarily call him love shy.
Is there something there? Does he like me? I don't want to do anything that takes him out of his comfort zone so how do I take it to the next level if there is something there?