TucanSam
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My name is caleb, im 19 years old and from the age of about 12 up to 16 I had no friends. im not exaggerating. I was homeschooled, almost never left the house and my only social interaction outside my family was on the internet. At age 16 I got a job, and began talking to people, but also acquired a girlfriend I dated for three years.
This is the part i'm confused about. As soon as I began to be around people, I found out i don't exactly... enjoy always being around them. I no longer knew how to make friends, and although people invited me out every once in a while conversations were akward and forced, and they never seemed to enjoy my company. They have since stopped inviting me out, and i have found that i have little to no interest in people anymore, for a few reasons.
Is it odd/not good to have 0 close friends? i have lived most of my adult life alone, and while I joke with people/talk to them at work, I don't have any interest in most of them as friend, and the few I do simply don't put out any effort. I just don't know what else to do. I've seen a therapist, who hasn't given me much help. Does anybody else have this problem?
This is the part i'm confused about. As soon as I began to be around people, I found out i don't exactly... enjoy always being around them. I no longer knew how to make friends, and although people invited me out every once in a while conversations were akward and forced, and they never seemed to enjoy my company. They have since stopped inviting me out, and i have found that i have little to no interest in people anymore, for a few reasons.
Is it odd/not good to have 0 close friends? i have lived most of my adult life alone, and while I joke with people/talk to them at work, I don't have any interest in most of them as friend, and the few I do simply don't put out any effort. I just don't know what else to do. I've seen a therapist, who hasn't given me much help. Does anybody else have this problem?