nolongerlonely.com and shypassions.com are the only online dating sites I found for social phobia\anxiety. Obviously men outnumber women 5-1 on them(most men aren't even depressed on them, just horny), so the more talented, smart, and handsome guys are only guys that are gonna find somebody on them, but any girl can. So if any guys use these sites, don't get your hopes up. I forget why I still bother with them sites, but then again I have nothing better to do.
You can add me on either of the sites and I can give you a little tour or advice on the sites, I'm talking about anybody that needs it. My username is ericisme Tell me who you are if you do message me on the site. I'm sure some of you could find somebody on them, it don't hurt to try. Don't get your hopes up, that's a bad idea, I know from experience!