Anonymous
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iv really had enough, im not so much shy anymore but i am very very social phobic, i get fidgety and anxious in peoples company and i feel they are judgin me all the time, so i close off and wish i was alone.
iv had a girl wanting to be my mate, like we wer to meet up once a week and be girlie together, but once we met up i was so quiet and anxious and i felt like i was the most boring person, like nothing i wud say wud fasinate her, i was quiet most of the time but it didnt help that she didnt say anything either! and shes NOT social phobic, its like this all the time, its like peolple want me to do all the talkin, but i cant so they dont say a word and i feel so ignorant, so basically iv missed out on a friend now, cos everytime we met up it wud be the same everytime and id be quiet and anxious, id do anything to hav a girlie friend to be girlie with, but my personality sucks.
i know thers a true me somewher inside but it just cant come out, im jealous of everyone cos they all have mates, places to go, but im so boring and i hate my life, iv seeked counselling, but it didnt do anything at all, cos all it was ws listening and it didnt solve anythng, i just feel so helpless, whwnever i go onto my friend chat room all my 'friends' NEVER chat to me, i always hav to chat to them first, but if i dont, i wudnt be talkin to them at all, its like i do ALL the work. i need people, but no-one seems to like me, they all think im a snobby depressent who cant talk about anything interesting at all. I HATE MY NON EXSISTENT LIFE!
iv had a girl wanting to be my mate, like we wer to meet up once a week and be girlie together, but once we met up i was so quiet and anxious and i felt like i was the most boring person, like nothing i wud say wud fasinate her, i was quiet most of the time but it didnt help that she didnt say anything either! and shes NOT social phobic, its like this all the time, its like peolple want me to do all the talkin, but i cant so they dont say a word and i feel so ignorant, so basically iv missed out on a friend now, cos everytime we met up it wud be the same everytime and id be quiet and anxious, id do anything to hav a girlie friend to be girlie with, but my personality sucks.
i know thers a true me somewher inside but it just cant come out, im jealous of everyone cos they all have mates, places to go, but im so boring and i hate my life, iv seeked counselling, but it didnt do anything at all, cos all it was ws listening and it didnt solve anythng, i just feel so helpless, whwnever i go onto my friend chat room all my 'friends' NEVER chat to me, i always hav to chat to them first, but if i dont, i wudnt be talkin to them at all, its like i do ALL the work. i need people, but no-one seems to like me, they all think im a snobby depressent who cant talk about anything interesting at all. I HATE MY NON EXSISTENT LIFE!