SickCycleCarousel
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I've been suffering from Pure O for about four or five years now.
Lately if I am awoken abruptly I will have a thought of killing my sister. I get scared but I also feel like I "have" to do it. I don't have these thoughts about anyone else (not as of late anyway, I have had them about my mom and dad but not as much as my sister). My sister and I don't have a very good relationship. I mean, we argue a lot but we use our words; we haven't hit each other in a very long time. I some times threaten to hit her but I know I would never do it; whenever I have hit her I instantly feel bad about it. I even feel bad when I tell her I hate her.
I get really upset with her when we argue. I feel like she is more articulate and I have to struggle with words and often times I cannot explain what it is I am thinking. I feel like she can say and or do anything she wants to me and I can't do anything back and it frustrates me so much that all I can say is "shut up and piss off". She's three years younger than I am but I always feel inferior to her.
So whenever I have intrusive thoughts they're always about her. I know I care about her other wise I wouldn't feel so sick over the thoughts.
For the past month or so I have been more pleasant to my sister. When she says hello and good morning to me instead of ignoring her like I usually do I say hello and good morning back. (I've never been a morning person and don't usually talk when I first wake up). She kinda woke me up day about how I seem to her. Like I said, I usually ignore her when she says hello to me and sometimes I'll snap at her to leave me alone like she's pestering me when all she's trying to do is be nice to me. I felt so bad about the way I had been acting that I turned a completely new leaf and even say good morning to her first.
For the last couple weeks I have been fearing that all that is a sham. I fear that I'm only going to be nice for so long then I'm going to snap and do something violent. Of course my rational side knows it isn't true. I REALLY DO want to be nicer. I don't want her to hate me and have nothing to do with me in the future. I don't want to lose her as my sister and I don't want to lose my brother because we don't have any family/relatives outside our family.
It's also like I'm trying to disprove the violent thoughts. It's like I'm being pleasant while I'm having thoughts of hurting my sister to kind of say "Ha! Joke's on you, fear, SEE I CAN be nice!" I fear I'm not genuine in my being nicer. I know it's the OCD talking. I have to remind myself every day it's only the OCD. It sometimes even comes as a revelation that it's ONLY the OCD. But I can't stand the doubt.
I took a nap today and when I woke up I instantly had a thought of killing my family. It scared me but I really felt like I was going to do it. I've been feeling so weird lately and I'm scared I'm really going crazy. But it's only the OCD, right?
I think I need to see a psychiatrist. I just cannot go on like this any longer. I'm scared but it's also like I'm becoming desensitized to the fear. The thought of that scares me more while it scares me less and that scares me more...rinse and repeat.
I don't know what to do but if I tell my mom...she just gets so angry at me for thinking these things. I hate this.
I'm sorry for the book, I have had this bottled inside me all week and really needed to get it out. I feel little better having written it down and getting it out of my head. I feel so alone and have no one that understands.
Thanks for listening.
Lately if I am awoken abruptly I will have a thought of killing my sister. I get scared but I also feel like I "have" to do it. I don't have these thoughts about anyone else (not as of late anyway, I have had them about my mom and dad but not as much as my sister). My sister and I don't have a very good relationship. I mean, we argue a lot but we use our words; we haven't hit each other in a very long time. I some times threaten to hit her but I know I would never do it; whenever I have hit her I instantly feel bad about it. I even feel bad when I tell her I hate her.
I get really upset with her when we argue. I feel like she is more articulate and I have to struggle with words and often times I cannot explain what it is I am thinking. I feel like she can say and or do anything she wants to me and I can't do anything back and it frustrates me so much that all I can say is "shut up and piss off". She's three years younger than I am but I always feel inferior to her.
So whenever I have intrusive thoughts they're always about her. I know I care about her other wise I wouldn't feel so sick over the thoughts.
For the past month or so I have been more pleasant to my sister. When she says hello and good morning to me instead of ignoring her like I usually do I say hello and good morning back. (I've never been a morning person and don't usually talk when I first wake up). She kinda woke me up day about how I seem to her. Like I said, I usually ignore her when she says hello to me and sometimes I'll snap at her to leave me alone like she's pestering me when all she's trying to do is be nice to me. I felt so bad about the way I had been acting that I turned a completely new leaf and even say good morning to her first.
For the last couple weeks I have been fearing that all that is a sham. I fear that I'm only going to be nice for so long then I'm going to snap and do something violent. Of course my rational side knows it isn't true. I REALLY DO want to be nicer. I don't want her to hate me and have nothing to do with me in the future. I don't want to lose her as my sister and I don't want to lose my brother because we don't have any family/relatives outside our family.
It's also like I'm trying to disprove the violent thoughts. It's like I'm being pleasant while I'm having thoughts of hurting my sister to kind of say "Ha! Joke's on you, fear, SEE I CAN be nice!" I fear I'm not genuine in my being nicer. I know it's the OCD talking. I have to remind myself every day it's only the OCD. It sometimes even comes as a revelation that it's ONLY the OCD. But I can't stand the doubt.
I took a nap today and when I woke up I instantly had a thought of killing my family. It scared me but I really felt like I was going to do it. I've been feeling so weird lately and I'm scared I'm really going crazy. But it's only the OCD, right?
I think I need to see a psychiatrist. I just cannot go on like this any longer. I'm scared but it's also like I'm becoming desensitized to the fear. The thought of that scares me more while it scares me less and that scares me more...rinse and repeat.
I don't know what to do but if I tell my mom...she just gets so angry at me for thinking these things. I hate this.
I'm sorry for the book, I have had this bottled inside me all week and really needed to get it out. I feel little better having written it down and getting it out of my head. I feel so alone and have no one that understands.
Thanks for listening.