Try this
Dear Ali,
This is a textbook example of the kind of situations that my treatment is most effective in when it comes to bringing about solid results. You're shy when meeting the opposite sex ( almost everyone is) ? You hate public speaking (isn't it rated above "death" as far as situations which cause the most anxiety?), you hate meeting new people (it's far easier to meet people you already have a rapport with, isn't it? Making new acquaintances is stressful and sometimes unbearable for everyone). Fine. THEN you stopped "going out with close friends and family," and started "not going to high school." See this is where a problem lies. And, conversely, this is also where a solution lies. Stop it. You're 18, you've missed a tremendous amount of school, and you don't feel ready for college. And now your family is upset with you. OH I FORGOT. AND THEY ALSO DON'T UNDERSTAND THAT IT'S SIMPLY SOCIAL ANXIETY! I'm no nuclear physicist, but I'd guess that...( Sam Kinison-style)YOU NEED TO GO TO SCHOOL! YOU NEED TO GO WHERE THE SCHOOL IS! YOU NEED TO GO CHILL WITH YOUR FRIENDS SOMETIMES! That will solve YOUR FUCKING "SA" problem in no time! Presto! Quit being a pussy. I mean... FUCKING STOP THAT! Idiot. You're just being lazy in school, you're neglecting your friends and family and your wish to spend time with them, and you need to fucking STOP IT; if you want to find happiness. That's how to deal with your issues. Forget the fucking self-diagnosis and stop all that silly shit you're talking about. Much simpler. Oh, and some might say: "well, if it were as easy as simply 'stopping it,' then I bet he, and everyone else with "SA" would have." Of course he tried to "stop it!" To them I say: you're right. He has probably tried to "stop it!" Well, to quote a great ficticious character: "there is no try; only do." I'm not advocating that you "try" to stop it. I'm advocating that you "stop!" this fucking behavior. Once the ridiculousness reaches true cessation, then you will be able to not bother with labeling your lack of ability to FUCKING STOP IT.
Sincerely,
Two Words
hey im suffering from social anxiety. basically its rubbing me of my life. i remember always being shy while meeting guys, new people, in class while working in groups, not enjoying public speaking, or participating in gym class. BUT.. I was also going out with family n with my close friends.. after a while I started staying home alot and not even going to skool during hs. That caused me to almost not graduate bcuz I missed so much skool. Now im 18 but I dun feel ready for college bcuz of all of my issues but my family jus doesnt seem to understand. I am reaching out for help but nobody seems to understand that I have a problem. I am commuting to school bcuz its close to home but I dun wanna go to classes. I already cut 2 classes and its gonna catch up with me. How do I go about getting help? bcuz I know I need it more than anything.. I am so depressed you have no idea. I wanna get help n then go off to college after I deal with my issues somehow.