Every time I try to flirt with someone I make a complete fool of myself. There is a shopping mall near my house that I go to quite a bit. Two of the stores in the mall have cashiers that I really want to talk to. But every time I walk into their store my adrenalin starts pumping. By the time I get up to their register my face turns bright red, I start to studder, and I feel like I'm about to hyperventalate. I can usually manage to say "hi there" or "how are you doing" but if I try to go any further I start to have a panic attack. I've tried all the obvious solutions like deep breathing, positive thinking, and preparing ahead of time about what I want to say. Nothing seems to be working. Whenever I ask people what I should do they always tell me to make small talk until I am comfortable enough to ask the girl for her number. I wish it was that easy, but there is no way that I can do that without having a panic attack. I've been going in there every week for the last few months and the panic attacks are only getting stronger and stronger every time I try to make small talk. Does anybody have any advice about how I can overcome this problem?