paul
Well-known member
I have a friend (she's 15 and very religious, although her religion seems to be one of her own) and she's very easy to talk to (if a bit irritating sometimes :lol and when I was describing my fears, she came up with something very unusual.
She said that she thinks there are types of people in the world, like Givers, Followers, Leaders, Fighters, etc. But she said she thinks I am a "Default" -- somebody born just basic, with no real talents. She says that since I am a "Default", my lack of asset with talents and skills contributes to my feelings of inadequacy and social anxiety. She says that she thinks "Defaults" are kind of people who don't really have a preset goal or purpose, but instead form one with the passing of events in their life.
I do doubt this theory, but I just thought it would be interesting to share with you all.
She said that she thinks there are types of people in the world, like Givers, Followers, Leaders, Fighters, etc. But she said she thinks I am a "Default" -- somebody born just basic, with no real talents. She says that since I am a "Default", my lack of asset with talents and skills contributes to my feelings of inadequacy and social anxiety. She says that she thinks "Defaults" are kind of people who don't really have a preset goal or purpose, but instead form one with the passing of events in their life.
I do doubt this theory, but I just thought it would be interesting to share with you all.