former-agoraphobic
Banned
Sup
The three things I like to think about when I feel that I'm dwelling on every detail on how I've acted in daily situations are...
1. Nobody cares, everybody forgets - Over 95% of times people forget what you've said or done the previous day, even if it's a juicy screw-up or if you've been rejected. Do this little experiment - ask somebody if they remember a random screw-up of yours from a month ago. Chances are, they'll try hard to remember and it'll take a lot of time. This means one obvious thing - you're not the center of the universe. People don't think about you and the way you think you screwed up all the time. It's in your head only.
2. Everybody dies, even the famous ones are forgotten. A really sweet one. Think of the last 5 nobel prize winners, explorers, inventors. See? I don't even know who they are either. Insignificance. You're so insignificant that no matter what you do, it'll never mean anything universally. Once you die, it's over. You only live once in this body, why do you have to shackle yourself like that? I like this demotivator - link. I know, depressing...
3. There's 1.5 billion people having it worse than you at any time. Seriously, try googling the most common diseases/disabilities people all over the world have to deal with every day. Cancer? Diabetes? Paralysis? Autism, OCD, High blood pressure, Obesity, Drug addiction... What about poverty, jail time, death of a loved one? It personally makes me feel like a laughable whiny bitch who has a difficulty choosing between two million-dollar outfits, compared to what these folks have to live with.
So what are your 3 SA breakers?
The three things I like to think about when I feel that I'm dwelling on every detail on how I've acted in daily situations are...
1. Nobody cares, everybody forgets - Over 95% of times people forget what you've said or done the previous day, even if it's a juicy screw-up or if you've been rejected. Do this little experiment - ask somebody if they remember a random screw-up of yours from a month ago. Chances are, they'll try hard to remember and it'll take a lot of time. This means one obvious thing - you're not the center of the universe. People don't think about you and the way you think you screwed up all the time. It's in your head only.
2. Everybody dies, even the famous ones are forgotten. A really sweet one. Think of the last 5 nobel prize winners, explorers, inventors. See? I don't even know who they are either. Insignificance. You're so insignificant that no matter what you do, it'll never mean anything universally. Once you die, it's over. You only live once in this body, why do you have to shackle yourself like that? I like this demotivator - link. I know, depressing...
3. There's 1.5 billion people having it worse than you at any time. Seriously, try googling the most common diseases/disabilities people all over the world have to deal with every day. Cancer? Diabetes? Paralysis? Autism, OCD, High blood pressure, Obesity, Drug addiction... What about poverty, jail time, death of a loved one? It personally makes me feel like a laughable whiny bitch who has a difficulty choosing between two million-dollar outfits, compared to what these folks have to live with.
So what are your 3 SA breakers?
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