To call or not to call?

Moonie

Well-known member
Hi everyone

The other night I went out to a bar, got drunk, and met a few people. Well, I ended up going home with this one guy and we had sex. This is not usually like me, :? We were talking the whole night, and when morning rolled around he had to drive me home (40-45 minute drive.) I think I may have been a little drunk still from the bar outting, because I was more talkative than my usual self during the drive. I gave him my number and now he wants to see me again. He said that I was gorgeous and funny and stuff, but now I am frightened to even call him. A) I am worried it will be weird because of the whole one night stand thing B) I am just terrified because I am sooo shy when sober. He seems more of the outgoing type.

I have been thinking about him since the drive home and I need to act fast. He called me a couple times, but I don't know what to do. I sort of would like to see him again, but now I might have given him the wrong impression of what I am like (because of the drinking) Should I go for it or would it be too weird? Thanks.
 

Thelema

Well-known member
Go for it.

The fact that he wants to see you again makes it more than just a one night stand
 

Comanch09

Member
He enjoyed having sex with you and would like to have sex again. If you into having sex with him and want to have a relationship with him, than go for it. If not, don't call back (many girls do that, it works and eventually he will stop).

Guys never just want to be friends with women, just facts. So, depends what your looking for. If you want to be in a relationship, go for it, if not, dont call back.
 

Jacky1980

Well-known member
Comanch09 has given some good advice about the relationship between men and women.
Now I would like to give some advice about how you feel. It is a typical reaction of social phobia sufferer, at first you gave him a good impression, and you are afraid of being thought of negatively when you see him again.
actually, we can only be ourselves in this world, accept ourselves as we are, we can try to behave better, but we cannot control the result, let god decide the result, we can only do what we can. what we live in this world for is to enjoy the life as much as we can, not to make ourselves a unduely perfect one, nothing or no one is perfect.
Everything is up to you, and do what you desire, and let god decide the result
 

Comanch09

Member
PS

If your a chick, just go to a bar or club if you want sex. Your clearly not fully comfortable with this guy, or you wouldn't be second guessing calling him.
 
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