da_illest101

Anyone else feels like they have too many issues to have a relationship with anyone?

I seriously feel like i'm too unstable to have one.

I'm most of the time depressed, I could be happy one minute and sad the next, I can care a minute and not the next min. I let people come close, but once they get too close I push them away. I fear meeting other people's entourage, I over think things way too much. I'm unhappy in life, except for my job, I don't really know why. I pretty much live in a fantasy world ( computer, video games) since I have a hard time coping with real life

Also I see that I tend to love pretty much any attractive girl that give me attention, but I'm just in love with the attention and what I say to them feels more like i'm saying it for them to stay around me. After a while they get fed up of me not doing anything else than saying things but not doing them ( I say things online of course, face to face I can't do anything)

this_portrait

Sometimes, but I want one anyway.

"Let us learn to show our friendship for a man when he is alive, and not after he is dead."

Eristelle

All the time, but I foolishly think someone would go far enough to even try to fall in love with me. Unfortunately that's unrealistic. :p

The Lost

Yes, although I'm actually wanting one, I still cannot feel even comfortable at the thought of getting close to someone enough for this to happen. Something to work on before it's too late.

antihistamine

If you maintain the same attitude and feelings about yourself, nothing will change..that's for sure.

Aletheia

I think I have way too many issues for a relationship and that it's not fair to the other person or even to me and I swear off them for a while but then I meet someone and....

UnOccupied

I have a good example of this happening. I was together with a girl at my school last year. We had a great night, but at the end of the night(alcohol made things worse), i got mad about something she said. Then it got kind of awkward, and she said, "look, i know you think you have something wrong with you, but that doesn't matter to me. Just forget about it for a minute. I like you, lets just go have some fun."

It was like she saw right through me. A belief of mine whenever i was with her was, i'm so messed up inside, i don't deserve her. And, it was like she saw right through to my mind when she said that.

www.TimFurTheWin.tumblr.com - Blog i'm working on that will share some of my favorite techniques/ methods i used to overcome social anxiety. ACTION ORIENTED, beware.

Just a few personal favorites in self-development: Overcoming Social Anxiety, Step by Step; Way of the Peaceful Warrior; A New Earth; The 5 Hour Work Week.

antihistamine

what a great story and a gorgeous thing to say to someone...so reassuring!

Felgen

Sometimes, but if I found someone else with Asperger's syndrome (or bipolar, AD(H)D or Tourette's--for that matter), things could be different.

"Without deviation from the norm, progress is not possible." -- Frank Zappa

lurknomore

I honestly don't know whether I have "too many" issues for a relationship. Most people have issues of some kind, but whether mine would hinder a relationship more than any other issues remains to be seen- as my biggest relationship issue at the moment is that I don't know anyone or have anyone showing any interest in being in any kind of relationship with me.