ok one last post. you seem like my type of person riiya...not sure if you are a guy or a girl lol...not that it really matters. i dont drink and i dont care to. i'm not sure if youre joking and not sure if i'm right but i think a shot is a small "glass" of hard liquor that they drink in one gulp? :?. starbucks sounds better but i dont even go there cuz i dont want to order. if i had a chance of a date...that would probably be the place i would take someone. well at least you guys work...i have no motivation. i used to...but like you guys say...work...home...work. who wants to live like that? maybe if i had someone i would have incentive to...but i dont. and my sa is killing me. i did have quite a few friends at one time in my life...too many once...i didnt have time for. but lately...i cant keep any if my life depended on it...and it may very well come down to that lol.Riiya said:Hoth said:I think you need to like some sort of activity, so that you can do it together. Most people seem to meet their friends through such activities -- volunteering, playing a sport, joining hiking groups, working a job, attending a church, being an activist, whatever. Easier said than done of course.
Yeah, I know. For me the "meeting people" part is easy; it's the "turning acquaintances into friends" that's difficult. Like I said, I don't know how to "hang." I lack the experience. People my age drink. I don't drink. It's not that I'm resistant to alcohol; I just don't really drink. If someone took me to a bar I wouldn't know what to do. I wouldn't know what to order. Seriously, what the hell is "a shot"? I think I'd rather go to Starbucks. If I had to guess I could at least order some "Hot Chocolate," and it's a drink I know wouldn't taste as nasty.
Riiya said:Yeah, that's the thing. I don't even know how to do lunch. I've never really been in a fancy restaurant and I don't know the etiquette there.