What do you think of Nervous/awkward girls? - Page 2

no1 · 05-01-2009, 09:31 PM

There was this nervous/awkward girl and I tried talking to her.. Nothing wrong with her.

on the other hand a nervous/awkward guy and he's avoided like the ****in plague.

meatcake · 05-01-2009, 09:42 PM

There was a nervous/awkward girl in my art class once, she had acne and glasses, and she dumped over a thing of turpentine once. I was totally smitten.

We started talking, and I think she liked me also - I was getting my hopes up, but then I overheard her say to someone else that her boyfriend was out of town for a few weeks. Damn. Foiled again.

Introv · 05-01-2009, 11:00 PM

As a shy guy, a shy/nervous girl is usually the type I could see myself being in a relationship with. However, it seems that I would almost require someone more outgoing to get the ball rolling as I couldn't do it myself.

Ashiene · 05-02-2009, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by meatcake

There was a nervous/awkward girl in my art class once, she had acne and glasses, and she dumped over a thing of turpentine once. I was totally smitten.

We started talking, and I think she liked me also - I was getting my hopes up, but then I overheard her say to someone else that her boyfriend was out of town for a few weeks. Damn. Foiled again.

yeah that's really f***ed up. i've lost count of how many times that's happened to me.

so what did you do after finding out she had a boyfriend? did you continue to talk to her or avoid her??

Skatergirl · 05-02-2009, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Ashiene

Hi Skatergirl (giving you a rep point

)! Welcome to SPW!

Are you just shy or have social anxiety too?

I think nervous/shy/awkward girls are very cute, especially when they blush! Also, there are enough of loud-mouthed, gossipy and annoying girls in our society, so shy girls definitely appreciated by most people.

I prefer shy girls to normal girls, of course, since I'm shy as well. What about you?? :P

Hey thanks!

I do have Social anxiety too.. Wish I was just shy lol

What I think about them? Ehhm.. Well i can't accept myself really good to be honestly, cuz i think i'm weird cuz of my awkwardness :P but other people which are awkward.. i think theire cute :P
i think people which are awkward, are nice, it's better then girls with over confidence which are really bitchy :P
that's true.

workout · 05-02-2009, 05:00 PM

Girls look beautiful when they blush

meatcake · 05-02-2009, 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Ashiene

yeah that's really f***ed up. i've lost count of how many times that's happened to me.

so what did you do after finding out she had a boyfriend? did you continue to talk to her or avoid her??

Well I still talked to her, because I liked her sense of humor, but I tried to avoid flirting with her - it's a kind of blurry line of course. But I got the feeling she would have been into a fling, which kind of depressed me. I mean, cheating kind of freaks me out, in general. And anyway, I was looking for an emotional connection as much as anything else. But maybe that's the SA talking? I mean, SA can make you feel pretty ****ing lonely.

What about you, did you keep talking to them after you found out they had boyfriends?

mrb · 05-02-2009, 09:12 PM

nothing wrong with being shy ... i like shy probs cos im shy as well lol

mimi1988 · 05-03-2009, 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Illusions

Most quiet/shy guys (i.e. SA?) like quiet/shy girls, or at least that's what I've noticed.

Not me. I definately feel more comfortable around people who are shy. But I don't think I'd ever want to date or marry one. I'd be too afraid that if we had kids they'd have the same problems. I don't want my kids (that's if I have any) to go through what I go through everyday.

no1 · 05-03-2009, 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted by mimi1988

Not me. I definately feel more comfortable around people who are shy. But I don't think I'd ever want to date or marry one. I'd be too afraid that if we had kids they'd have the same problems. I don't want my kids (that's if I have any) to go through what I go through everyday.

and there you have it. we are bred out of existence. or genocide.