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Skatergirl
You r very cute, u shud be proud and confident of yourself. I wud ask u out if u lived in mah city

Flowers-Of-Bloom

I'm very nervous and awkward. Physically awkward too.
A lot of the time I just come off as a loser/cluts, because I'm so clumsy...

But my friends accept me, so it's fine.

Girls that glitter love the dark.

"They make it looks so easy, connecting with another human being. It's like no one told them it's the hardest thing in the world." - DEXTER

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AlleyCat

I am one. hehe

Skatergirl

Why do you think that you can't find a girlfriend? shy guys can too!
You don't have to be the cool guy,
If you know what i mean
Boys think they have to be strong, and show that they are a real man.
but you know, i think boys who are shy ( boys who show their feelings )
Are great, because did you know, that most girls,
Really like that kind of guy who's really sensetive and sweet to a girl ?
Please don't think you can't find a girl, i thought so too about relationships, but it's just hard when you have S.A to find someone, because it's hard to make social contacts! It's not because you are shy!
Or you just found the wrong girls! Who want a bad guy if you know what i mean.

Skatergirl

awww thank you so !!

Imhotep

Of course it is!

Forgetmenot_ak

When I'm shy and consequently awkward guys typically think that my being shy, nervous and awkward is "cute". The guys I've dated were always warned by me about my SA, and they didn't seem to mind at all in a negative way. You know how those loud, dramatic girls are SOOO annoying?... I think quiet people give off the "I'm not all about drama" vibe (and it's typically true)

I have really high standards when it comes to what I consider love, and everyone is different about that... but I've truly been in love once, with my ex-fiance, and at that point I was completely "me". He made me feel comfortable, and around him I think my SA actually went away completely (well when it was just the two of us at least). I could tell him anything... he was my best friend that I'd ever had (crap, now I'm getting sad... ) When I was with him and others, I was socially anxious, but he understood and knew how to make me feel more comfortable. Once when we went bowling with his friends I started getting really bad anxiety and even though he paid for the full length of bowling, he told his friends that HE wasn't feeling well and he took me home where we just relaxed in comfort and he just made me feel much better. He knew that telling his friends what was really going on would just make me more anxious, so he said he wasn't feeling well. Though I was with him for years and he did many amazing things along those lines, that memory always stands out - I guess because it's just how he casually cared about me and took the time to understand.

Sorry, I tend to ramble about him. He still breaks my heart. You'd think by now it would just be shattered and unable to crack any more than it already has... but it was love, and love makes you crazy. I was ready to spend my life with him.. Uh, until he beat me..

If you're truly in love, she'll understand or she'll at least try her hardest and do what she can to make you more comfortable. If the girl in your avatar photo is you, well, I'd go lesbian for you (kidding, but you're gorgeous!), you seem quite sweet, and I absolutely doubt that your girlfriend is bothered by your anxiety. She wouldn't be with you (and she definitely wouldn't love you) if she was really upset about how you act because of your SA. I imagine that she thinks it's cute, and she likely understands.

J_M

I like shy girls, I guess because shy generally equals nice.

talisman

I prefer shy girls as well. That's not to say I'll get on with just any shy girl - they need to have a sense of humour, a friendly disposition and a similar personality, but I do prefer being with people who understand what shyness is like.

iamthenra

If you were my girl, it would not matter to me one bit if you were nervous or awkward or even clumsy. You could tear my house down, and it wouldn't matter too much to me, because a house can be rebuilt and material objects can be purchased, but a partner is something to cherish and embrace and forgive etc... So for me, it would not matter one bit. In fact I think that it would be a cute trait to have.

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