Whats wrong with me ?

Hi..I have Social phobia and am also shy.Im normally quite happy when Im alone/single.I can watch tv..surf the web..talk to my

brother..family..friends..and am very happy.
But when I get attatched to someone..I cant switch off.I am always thinking about them.I cant sleep, eat,focus on anything.I get obsessed.And get hurt

easily.Im always sad and crying.I feel inadequate as I dont work, I tend to not enjoy anything else in life.Im restless, anxious about meeting the girl..and

when I meet i dont enjoy as Ive spent the last 20hours obsessing about her.
What is wrong with me.Im getting tired.
I just asked a very beautiful and kind girl not to speak with me.As I was falling in love with her.(She likes me too).And Im feeling better :s
Going to goto the psychiatirst tomorrow for sure.

It sounds like you falling in love with her and you have to decide whether or not that is a good thing.

being anxious, obsessive and restless could just be the product of an idle mind. maybe you could consider getting a job, or getting involved with some kind of hobby that really captivates you. you want to direct your attention, not get into the habit of thinking something's wrong with you. that mindset will undoubtedly keep your cycle in motion.

have fun, don't dwell, and get help if you feel you need it.

The thing is..I cant focus on anything else.
The things which I like when im single.I dont like anything then.Not even my favourite hobby or something.Everything is a burden.I feel very unhappy.I can be very happy with that person when I am just a friend but anything more and I get very sad.They dont give me happiness at all.No clues.

Got my appointment for Monday 2.30pm First ever councelling! Atleast I would start getting treatment done.
thanks...

I love being single.Only thing which eats me is the fact that I am not like others and im always alone and i enjoy being alone.I goto meet my friends at night..I come back.I dont even talk to them muchin the daytime. I enjoy acitivties like working out and kickboxing. Only doing that and spending sometime with my friends..and I am very happy. I just dont have a need of being with anyone..no matter how nice they are.
I dont get it.

hmm...well i have to say im prety much like you..