Which confident will help the most ?

which confidents will help you become more sociable confident in you or confident in other liking you ?

In other words which is most helpful to believe in you and not caring what other think. but if we felt that way would that take away are ability to want to get close to others. do we still need compassion in knowing who other are like what kind of jobs they have, what they like to do. what tape of music , movies , hobbies and foods they like.

or should we feel more confident in other liking us. Because who like people who hate them. if we believe that other don`t like us then that might set off alot of weird facial expressions. which might explain why we get the treatment that we get.

Well if I was confident in myself, even if others didn't like me I'd still believe I was doing okay. I don't think being confident in your own opinions means you won't listen to or like others, just that you won't always put their opinions and perspectives above your own without considering whether they're right or wrong.

Fey said:

Well if I was confident in myself, even if others didn't like me I'd still believe I was doing okay. I don't think being confident in your own opinions means you won't listen to or like others, just that you won't always put their opinions and perspectives above your own without considering whether they're right or wrong.

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Yes that pretty good answer thanks . so confident should help by helping us be bullet proof to rejection.

Having some booze with co-workers or fellow students seems to peppy my spirits. Talking to the opposite sex or even bei

I do not really care about "rejection" the world is full of brainwashed people. Usually people are living in fear of other people. While others are not experienced enough to realize that they are surrounded by losers.

Take using your camera in public. Usually poor people who have issues along with people who think everybody is a pervert will dodge cameras.

Another example is walking into a place of business with no intention of buying anything. When the store owner is not making any money they get angry and upset. By law you are trespassing but the reality the store owner is displeased by your presence.

You have to understand that many people are living alienated in xenophobia. It is like the entire Trump campaign. You start getting along with people who do not want to play it cool but then they play it cool....


1. Learn not to care what people think about you.

2. Take your work/studies seriously.

3. Save your money. Money is your vote

4. Do not fear anything and just enjoy yourself. Point being is that everybody is trying to put on a good show and they are trying to entertain each other. It is not really about
being in love at all but about putting on a show.

Eventually you will realize that many people are just as dumb or even dumber then you.
For example I was in this rich area with mansions. This guy in his sports car stopped briefly to ask an elderly/homeless man pushing a cart. He had no answer.

The more crazier you are the more you can adapted to fitting in and not caring. Just remember to do your homework/study/stay fit/and remember the audience is always watching you.

In the end everybody becomes beggars who are still living in fear. Everybody is in distress. Training there children to live in fear despite there privilege or value. Think about how you came to be on this planet. Your parents had to be at a certain level of not caring and poof here you came.