Originally Posted by kevincadogan
why do girls usually choose assholes for boyfriends instead of niceguys?i have sa,and iam a nice guy.u would think thats what a girl would be looking for,someone that wouldnt treat her like crap.i dont know,i cant figure it out.
I think what some people see in asshole guys in the assertiveness. Not neccessarily confidence in general but the ability to stand up for yourself. I believe you can be quiet/introverted and still be confident, however being a nice guy often entails someone who is easily trodden on. Whats your definition of a nice guy?
One example which may be of interest; I once dated a 'nice guy' who was sick to death of being used by a-hole women
who used him for short term relationships. So it can and does happen both ways.
I only ever date nice guys. Obviously I'm not all women, but I hope it helps knowing that there are
plenty of people out there who are happy to be around more stable and less obnoxious partners.