Why does everyone hates me?

SickJoke

Well-known member
No, the question doesn't say it all. If you want help you need to be specific and explain yourself. We're not mind readers. The simple answer is this: everyone doesn't hate you; that's just absurd.
 

danstelter

Well-known member
One of the things about anxiety is...

that we constantly think that people are thinking about us! When in fact, most people could care less about us and don't even know that we exist. Just because someone looks at you doesn't mean they even care who you are...maybe they just looked in your direction.

This post is probably an attention-getting technique. Find better ways to get attention like calmly explaining your issue and why you think it is that "everyone hates you." If you think that everyone hates you, then the problem is most likely with you, not other people.

Even people who are horrible people, like Adolf Hitler or Saddam Hussein, had people who liked them. So people probably would like you if you let them. Stop the drama and start being mature and take care of your difficulties!
 
Who the fuck are you dansteleter to order me to stop talking about my problems. Fuck you for being a jerk and dont you fucking tell me that Im the bad one while everyone is the good ones.

Yah fuckwit I will kill you if I have too I have enough fucking problems in my life and I dont deserve to be fucking bashed in this forums every single fuckign time I come here for help.

So you can shove youve smart arse comments on somebody elses arse instead of ganging up on me all the fucking time.

Yah fucking cunt
 
The question should be why is everyone on this forums complete jerks and they lack empathy when it comes to hurting and offending someone with comments like '' Oh your the fucked up one, everybody else is normal' thats really gonna make me feel so much better. Why dont you start helping people for once yah obnoxious CUNT.
 
DANSTELLAR THE PROBLEM IS PEOPLE LIKE YOURSELF ARE COMPLETE TOSSERS, JERKS JERKS JERKS.

ENOUGH SAID

YOUR THE REASON WHY THIS FORUM IS GONNA BE FUCKED UP FOR LIFE
 

Anubis

Well-known member
joshwillbedeadsoon said:
Who the fuck are you dansteleter to order me to stop talking about my problems. Fuck you for being a jerk and dont you fucking tell me that Im the bad one while everyone is the good ones.

Yah fuckwit I will kill you if I have too I have enough fucking problems in my life and I dont deserve to be fucking bashed in this forums every single fuckign time I come here for help.

So you can shove youve smart arse comments on somebody elses arse instead of ganging up on me all the fucking time.

Yah fucking cunt

Good, you're asserting your opinions about dansteleter. This is actually a good sign that you have the potential to overcome SA. Most people don't even know what they want.

Only one problem though. You just have to responsibility assert your opinions. You could have probably put dansteleter in his place without using any profanity. And it's not as hard as you think. You just have to let go of the fear that you're words lack power without profanity. Once you do that, you'll have amazing power.
 
maybe everyone hates you because you ask for help and then start flipping out and swearing at the people who try to help you...

danstelter had some really good points and what he said was true. Not everyone hates you. When you look at someone that you're passing in a mall or something do you think "I really like that person" or "I hate that person"??

No, you don't even think about them. It's the same way with other people when they look at you.
 

Neph

Well-known member
nbody hates you

you just care too much about what people would think of you and why no comes rushing up to talk talk to you out of nowhere

who cares if they do

some people cant help but hate anyway
 

livinginnsilence

New member
suck shit joseph :twisted: look at how much fun i get up tooo, i get drunk cause I have friends unike u and i get laid and i look smoking hot

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Jim695

New member
Josh,

I completely sympathize with you.

I have had SA since I was a small child and like many other people with SA, we ( I ) tend to think everyone is judging us harshly and hate us. I have had the same thoughts many times throughout my life and still do even though I am a grown man.

At least for myself, I seem to have been born that way, plus having a family life where there was a lot of hatred and no one spoke to one another which only reinforced my belief that I was a nothing and not even worth talking to. I have always felt that people did not like me or outrightly hated me once they got to know me.

I understand all too well what you are going through!

Jim
 
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