KiaKaha
Banned
No one likes to be wrong. I know I dont. Yet.... I find it intriguing that at some point we are all wrong about something at some point in our lives... but find it so hard to admit it when we are.
Why is this so?
I see examples of it all the time, in real life, in the news... even in this forum... People will stubbornly refuse to admit any wrong doing, and in fact actually try to justify their position instead....and if they are pointed out that they are wrong...there is a feeling of lingering resentment.
What is so bad about making mistakes and being wrong?
I remember a friend of mind years ago who was adamant that the Titanic had five funnels instead of four...after years of evidence being presented he would still not admit it, even though he knew he was wrong...its like his ego and his self preservation relied on him not being at fault.
Can you admit when you are wrong? I can... I dont like doing it, but I have done before.... usually to avoid confrontation I back down first....although, if I was a different kind of person I could just as easily push and push.
Why is this so?
I see examples of it all the time, in real life, in the news... even in this forum... People will stubbornly refuse to admit any wrong doing, and in fact actually try to justify their position instead....and if they are pointed out that they are wrong...there is a feeling of lingering resentment.
What is so bad about making mistakes and being wrong?
I remember a friend of mind years ago who was adamant that the Titanic had five funnels instead of four...after years of evidence being presented he would still not admit it, even though he knew he was wrong...its like his ego and his self preservation relied on him not being at fault.
Can you admit when you are wrong? I can... I dont like doing it, but I have done before.... usually to avoid confrontation I back down first....although, if I was a different kind of person I could just as easily push and push.