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Old 09-19-2011
 

I enjoyed school but only for the education. I HATED everyone there.
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Old 09-19-2011
 

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One of my classmates from high school keeps visiting my mom who helps him out, and mentioned once about wanting to see me. This past summer, a couple weeks before I left for college he decided to sneak upstairs to where I was and was actively trying to find me. I snuck back and forth between my room and into the bathroom at all the appropriate times and he never saw me. I know it's rude, but he was kind of intruding and I can't help how evasive I am
He entered your home, and came upstairs looking for you? It doesn't sound like he was kind of intruding...he was absolutely intruding. That's just incredibly creepy behaviour. If he wanted to see you, he should have just picked up a phone and called you, or even emailed or messaged you.
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Old 09-19-2011
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No, I'm afraid not ... I didn't really like anyone there, aside from my friends, and they didn't particularly like me either. It would be fascinating to know what everyone's up to in the future, but I'd rather pass them in the store or something and have a quick chat then. Maybe I'll just never see them again. I don't care that they were bullies. I'm sure all (or most) of them have grown up by now, and if they haven't, they might have done 20, 30 years down the line.
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Old 09-27-2011
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depends. if i still have my anxiety and panic attacks... then f*ck no. the last thing id want, is to be the single, fat, jobless, sweaty, loser all sketched out looking like a paranoid freak having panic attacks on the f*cking floor (im assumeing thats what i'll become with this panic disorder)

BUT if im anxiety free. then yes. id show up, and id be a confident architect with a wife and kids.......and a f*cking jet pack. loads money and a slim toned stature.

hahah well thats what id like to think any way.
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Old 09-27-2011
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Only if I'm elected as the first astronaut billionaire fascist President/evil dictator for life of the United states. And I'll only be there to gloat about how awesome I am.
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Old 09-27-2011
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No way. I had a pretty awful high school experience and everybody thought of me as a doofus anyway. No need to go and remind myself of it.
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Old 09-27-2011
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No... I don't really care about the rest of my graduating class. At all. Don't care where they are or what they're doing, nor will I ever care.

Although "HELL TO THE FREAKING NO" might be a bit too negative.
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Old 09-27-2011
 

I went to my 10 year this year. It helped me put a lot of things to rest. I recommend it as a healing experience for anyone who hated high school and everybody in it as much as I did.
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Old 10-03-2011
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It would be pointless to go. I was like a ghost in that school; hardly anyone knew I existed. High school is one chapter of my life that I have locked up and am trying to forget ALL about it.
I feel the same way. And nothing much has changed about me. I have seen what the majority of people are up to thanks to FB, and while nothing is really impressive, they have moved on in their lives...they are married, have children. I don't have that, and I don't have the sparkling career either. Not a party person...what would I talk about?

My 10 year HS reunion was last year, though it was supposed to be this year. I didn't know about it, but even if I had, I wouldn't have gone!
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Old 10-03-2011
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I might. On the one hand, it would be interesting to see what's happened to my old classmates within the past however many years, but on the other hand, it would be awkward as hell, and I don't really know if I could deal with that awkwardness.
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Old 10-03-2011
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I skipped my 5 year school reunion. Actually, I wasn't really invited. Apparently the class representatives thought the best way to spread the word was on Facebook. I only heard about it from a classmate I ran into at the laundromat. Double eyeroll. I probably won't go to the 10 year either. Maybe once I've become more comfortable with myself and I actually have a job and my own place, then I may go to future reunions.
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Old 10-03-2011
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I had mine last year and I was like hell no that I am going since I did not want to relive some bad parts of my past.

Relectantly I did end up going and most of the guys remembered me and gave me a hug. Overall I had a good time and was able to let go of my anger towards some of the who have caused me problems during that time.

I would recommend that if you have the opportunity to go then go. If the people suck that bad you can always leave early.
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Old 10-03-2011
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I'd love to give my school a report card. Z-
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Old 10-03-2011
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If I can go with a gun in one hand and a chainsaw in the other then sure~ why not
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Old 10-04-2011
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I'll have to wait and see how I'm doing in 10 years if we have one then. If I'm doing well socially and feel able to go, why not? I wouldn't mind seeing some people, high school wasn't a miserable of an experiences for me. If I'm not doing well of course I won't go, a 30 year old sitting in the corner silent may creep some people out.
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Old 10-04-2011
 

Lol, what a coincidence. There actually was a reunion of my high school this weekend. I didn't go because i heard about it 1 day before. But otherwise i probably wouldn't have gone either. Maybe sometime when i feel a little better.
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Old 10-04-2011
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I'd go, cuz everyone would be like "Who's she..."
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Old 10-04-2011
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No way!!!!!!!!
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Old 10-04-2011
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I think the rsvp's were already sent out on facebook but I don't have it I would only want to go if people I knew well were there and the only ones there. I have no desires to catch up on randomville.
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Old 10-04-2011
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If I can go with a gun in one hand and a chainsaw in the other then sure~ why not
Don't forget your trench coat and black shades
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