Do you think you're ugly?

planemo

planemo

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Krista said:
Most everyone will tell you that they think they're ugly, it's quite sad actually. There was a point when I had the lowest opinion about myself, my SA was severe and I could barely function. It started as just being merely nervous, wondering what others thought about me or how I looked, then progressed into my friends to the point where I would be sitting with them and literally being having a panic attack. In my head, I gave myself the mental image I thought I looked like...I've got a HORRIBLE opinion about myself and it showed. I had no confidence in myself, my eyes were always down, slouched, hands in lap at all time like a submissive dog. That's how I assumed I looked, like a dog.

But once I started seeing someone, feeling better about myself and talking out how I felt it got so much better. I don't think I'm a beauty in the least and I don't like complimenting myself because it seems very vain and conceited but I certainly don't think I'm ugly. Maybe bordering on pretty and that's enough for me :)
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That's very well said.:)
 
sara1975

sara1975

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How i see my self depends on my mood at the time, if i feel ok i think i look ok but with flaws but if i am down then i see everything i don't like about my appearance and and i feel like i am ugly.
 
static

static

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Yes.. there are definitely a lot of things I'd like to change about my appearance. I have a big nose and my skin makes me self-conscious.
 
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apollo

apollo

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I'm not ugly but as odd as this can sound I've been jealous before of hideous people because they did not have SA.
 
lunarla

lunarla

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When I get really low and into self loathing I don't even think I look human, really. And even still when I'm out of that kind of mentality I still think I'm not very attractive at all. I compare myself to every other girl I see and I'm always incredibly undesirable, it seems.
 
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xxaimsxx

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I think i am. But in the past i've been called pretty and ugly before so i'm confused to what i really am. :confused:
 
AimeeSP

AimeeSP

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lifesuchs said:
i wasnt ugly but masturbation made me really skinny
and now i look horrible:confused:
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Really? Wow, never thought that'd be a weight loss option! ::p:

That's upsetting you think you look horrible, i know many people who are very slim but are beautiful, infact i find you all beautiful no matter what size. :)
 
numb embryonic

numb embryonic

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I don't think, I know I'm ugly. Certain traumatic social events in my life wouldn't of happened if i was 'acceptable' looking. Always the guy having to movie on. I just know as well from watching how women treat other guys.

Stronger facial bones and a bit more height (I'm only 5ft9 1/2) would help greatly, but it isn't to be.
 
Helmaninquiel

Helmaninquiel

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numb embryonic said:
I don't think, I know I'm ugly. Certain traumatic social events in my life wouldn't of happened if i was 'acceptable' looking. Always the guy having to movie on. I just know as well from watching how women treat other guys.

Stronger facial bones and a bit more height (I'm only 5ft9 1/2) would help greatly, but it isn't to be.
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You don't look ugly in your picture, and you know what **** them all outer beauty is a lie.
 
Elad

Elad

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I have days that I think I'm ok looking and days I feel extremely ugly but most of the time I feel like I'm not meeting some kind of magical standard that everyone else is, pretty much all my anxiety is about how I appear to other people.

I posted this on another forum months ago in a thread with the same title so just pasted here.
 
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