Kiwong
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It does happen sometimes. But she isn't likely to bust down your door and walk into your room to do so.
Sometimes When We Touch - Dan Hill - Official Video 1994 - YouTube
It does happen sometimes. But she isn't likely to bust down your door and walk into your room to do so.
You have a better chance of getting struck by lightning than a woman approaching you.
You have a better chance of getting struck by lightning than a woman approaching you.
I have come to the conclusion that the only time I will be able to "date" or have a "relationship" is if a woman asks ME out. Part of my demented brain tells me that this is the only way it will work.
Life is fascinating. And boring.
Ha, I have the same thoughts with women. Although, Zaki, you just never know! I know you have terrifying thoughts of men, but if you can ask a nice one out, that would be great.In addition, I tend to think that the more attractive a guy is, the lower the likelihood he would be interested in me.
Aw, man. So this means I'll have to do all the chasing? Can't I just sit back with my grapes and have the ladies approach me? :bigsmile:Now I'm sorry to say that if you're waiting around for a woman to approach you, you might as well load up on books, DVDs and snacks in the meantime. You'll want to have many options on hand to keep you occupied. I suggest you keep a blanket nearby too, because you're going to get mighty sleepy. I'm not trying to be a smartass, either. It just seems rare for women to take that initiative in a society that places such great pressure on men to make the first move and confidently pursue women in whom they are romantically interested. Of course, there's no law that prevents women from asking men out, but they aren't expected to do so. I suppose that men who are celebrities/known for their money or status and those who are exceptionally good-looking may have a somewhat higher chance than others. Even then...:idontknow:
Sometimes I wish I had the balls to ask out a guy I find attractive. I find sooo many of them attractive. I could NEVER work up that kind of nerve though. I would have to get far more comfortable around guys in general before I could even imagine doing such a thing. In addition, I tend to think that the more attractive a guy is, the lower the likelihood he would be interested in me.
Now I'm sorry to say that if you're waiting around for a woman to approach you, you might as well load up on books, DVDs and snacks in the meantime. You'll want to have many options on hand to keep you occupied. I suggest you keep a blanket nearby too, because you're going to get mighty sleepy. I'm not trying to be a smartass, either. It just seems rare for women to take that initiative in a society that places such great pressure on men to make the first move and confidently pursue women in whom they are romantically interested. Of course, there's no law that prevents women from asking men out, but they aren't expected to do so. I suppose that men who are celebrities/known for their money or status and those who are exceptionally good-looking may have a somewhat higher chance than others. Even then...:idontknow:
I have been approached a couple of times, though - one in particular I'll kick myself for not following through with - so it does happen. :thumbup:
It did happen to you because you're an attractive guy; girls on this site have told you that numerous times and it's true. If a guy has no social skills, girls can only judge him by the way he looks and will only approach him if they think he's good looking. Girls simply have no reason to approach not so good looking guys who are unable to convey their personality to them. It's a harsh truth, but that's just the way it is - if nature hasn't blessed you with good looks, it's all up to you.
Thanks for the compliments, but I honestly don't see it. I would have more luck in my local area if that was the case. :idontknow:It did happen to you because you're an attractive guy; girls on this site have told you that numerous times and it's true. If a guy has no social skills, girls can only judge him by the way he looks and will only approach him if they think he's good looking. Girls simply have no reason to approach not so good looking guys who are unable to convey their personality to them. It's a harsh truth, but that's just the way it is - if nature hasn't blessed you with good looks, it's all up to you.
Has this happened to you?yeah, but...
if you're too good looking, most of the shyer girls are too intimidated to approach you
:sad:
yeah, but...
if you're too good looking, most of the shyer girls are too intimidated to approach you
:sad:
. . . but there's still the forward outgoing types that do all the work for me! . . . the sort that go after the sullen, understated man whose words are few but meaningful . . . hey, I just scratched together a Lifetime Saturday morning special!
Where do you run into these types?
Has this happened to you?
Around me and not you, obviously . . . but in case you're really asking this [sans the snark], these women exist in the form of secretaries/receptionists and HR girls, not exactly difficult to track down.
Okay. But why wouldn't they be around me?